This is probably dumb :S

[JOSIE]

Erin - I love you! Your posts make me laugh and I know you can totally relate! After my last thread, I really do feel a lot better. The feedback from BDW really gave me insight I had not considered before and I felt more normal knowing other girls struggle with similar situations. It just makes you feel less crazy because as women we tend to beat ourselves up over this kind of stuff, especially when in the back of our minds we know its stupid and we shouldnt compare ourselves.

 

Thanks for thinking of me

[BillysBride]

Jen--Girl you are getting married on MY BIRTHDAY. I refuse to allow any foolishness..you are a fly ass diva because I said so. Dammit. lol

[*Jen* OPPRN]

LOL - LOVE it...we are changing the date by a few months tho - we rae going to get married on our 4 year anniversary and it gives us a little more time to save money for the big day

 

Ladies - I thank-you so much for your input - ex's totally suck - I was never like this with my ex-husband - and he and I remain friends because he is not being an ass*ole - I don't know why the laws dictate the amount of money - I think my FI got screwed but what do I know - his lawyer basically told him to take the deal and run - some deal - leaves him with $50 every two weeks for the next couple of years RIDICULOUS!!!! Anyway, I likely wouldn't care about anything his ex does if she wasn't such a &*$%&()*#*^ - words I won't even type - Josie I will check out your link for sure - Thanks again ladies!