Does your FI/DH know how much you weigh?
Posted 10 June 2009 - 03:35 PM
Posted 10 June 2009 - 03:59 PM
| Originally Posted by Jacqueline |
TBH I never asked him how much he weighs, nor has he ever asked me b/c it never came up or care i guess.
Once in a blue he'll mention that maybe he lost or gained some lbs (he goes to gym and weighs himself, I do not) but that's it.
Ditto to this, my FI has never asked, as he will love me at whatever size.
Posted 10 June 2009 - 09:32 PM
Posted 10 June 2009 - 09:43 PM
Posted 10 June 2009 - 10:09 PM
I'm very uncomfortable with my weight, I always have been. I've been trying to lose but it's like a never ending battle. But when I do finally get to a point where I'm more comfortable, I feel like then I'll be able to tell him.
He's been skinny his whole life and never had to worry about what he ate, so even though he's gained a lot of weight the past year, it doesn't really bother him to get on the scale and share his weight, because he knows he can drop the weight he's gained in a matter of weeks (SO UNFAIR!)
Posted 10 June 2009 - 10:22 PM
Posted 10 June 2009 - 10:23 PM
Posted 10 June 2009 - 10:52 PM
Posted 12 June 2009 - 07:44 PM
When we both decided to commit to a healthier lifestyle and try to lose the weight, he said the only way we will be able to do it is if we tracked our results so we could make our goals more tangible. Since I was getting desperate at this point to lose the weight, I agreed and finally told him my #. He didn't make fun of me or say I was disgusting...even though I knew he wouldn't, as he is so supportive:) but my weight has always been a touchy subject for me...
Anyway, coming to terms with not being embarassed by my weight is what helped me lose 30lbs since November and am now a size 8! Over this time, we tracked our weight every two weeks and even do our measurements. He has been so supportive and won't let me beat myself up. Being honest with each other and getting our embarassments out of the way helped us to focus on our goal. I know for sure I'll be able to get back to a size 6, with his support
Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:58 PM
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