Wish me luck...going to pic up my dress from FMIL

[gkashmira]

Good luck! Just get in and out of there as fast as you can!!!

[Clussy75]

Good luck! You're an example of standing your ground to us, especially in this kinda situation! My thoughts are with you!

[JaimeLynne]

Good Luck!!!

[DreaW]

so I got the dress... and E's mom wasn't there. His dad was though and he asked me about San Fran. I said it was good, cold, and that Erik and I are talking about it, haven't decided yet.

 

Well E's Dad all of sudden said that he would be happy if we eloped and if we thought about it. Well when he mentioned this I go ahead and open my mouth and tell him that Erik and I were THINKING about it. I also then go and ask him what he would think if Erik and I just did it on our trip this July? Well he said he didn't mind....then I asked what he would think his wife would say....and he said, " I think you need to talk to Carol and make sure you have all the facts, but I think she would be totally ok with it just as long as you have a party afterwards."

Well I said we were just thinking about it and that I would have Erik come with me to talk to her and he says,"no you should tell him and don't be scared, she will understand."

 

So I leave happy and then call Erik and Erik begins to say that I did a bad thing.....That I just set off the bomb.....that his dad was going to call Carol immediately after I had left and his mom would be pissed or she would invite everyone. Which he thinks everyone will come and crash wedding.

 

Oh well....will see what happens....at least it's somewhat out there , so if she calls Erik and says that I mentioned something to Mike and not her....then Erik can explain.

 

I'm going out to dinner with his parents this weekend and his brother and sister-n-law and aunt and uncle......So it will be interesting,

(sorry for all the and's)

 

This is such an soup opera....lol

[LadyP]

MEMEMEMEMEEEEEEE as I sing. GOOD let him call. this is your wedding and she will get over it. She has no say if she is not paying. She can call the world if she wants. Do they know where you will be staying. If they come tell the waiter that they are not on your tab SEPARATE CHECKS please lol

[TammyB]

Girl, your just as bad as I'am. lol.. well hopefully it all works out and you won't have any more drama regarding your wedding. Everyone will learn to accept your decision and eventually they will get over it.. :-)

[DreaW]

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyP MEMEMEMEMEEEEEEE as I sing. GOOD let him call. this is your wedding and she will get over it. She has no say if she is not paying. She can call the world if she wants. Do they know where you will be staying. If they come tell the waiter that they are not on your tab SEPARATE CHECKS please lol

Catherine good Idea about the seperate checks for dinner if the relatives crash....
So let's see what happens....

[LadyP]

at the end of the night when you two leave and the waiter had

fmil the bill her facial will be priceless :0O. HAHAHAHAHA

[-Kate-]

You are stronger than I am...I couldn't handle half this much drama!!

[JaimeLynne]

Oh jeez, the dinner this weekend should be interesting... (eek, it makes me cringe just thinking about it!) Hang in there, sounds like you're doing a good job so far!