Jump to content

MOH vent!!!! argh!!!


LisaG

Recommended Posts

  • Replies 79
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Lisa, just wanted to say that I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all of this, but on the bright side, at least you now know who you can & cannot depend on.

 

I think someone on this forum (dragonfly maybe?) said this, and it's stuck wtih me, but that weddings and the birth of a child bring out the best & worst in people...

 

At least you have removed the stress, and can now focus on getting married and spending the rest of your life with James...not having to deal with unnecessary drama.

 

Best of luck.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Quote:
Originally Posted by jak27 View Post
I think someone on this forum (dragonfly maybe?) said this, and it's stuck wtih me, but that weddings and the birth of a child bring out the best & worst in people...
Thank you!! I like that saying...alot! And you know, I was right by her side at the birth of both of her girls. monkey.gif She better be glad she's not having anymore kids!
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Thats HORRIBLE, Lisa!!! I recently had to let a friend go, after 14 years of being one of my best friends. I was the MOH at both her weddings and she was my MOH at my first one...she will not even be invited to this one.

 

It sucks, but you gotta do it sometimes.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Quote:
Originally Posted by Just Martha View Post
Thats HORRIBLE, Lisa!!! I recently had to let a friend go, after 14 years of being one of my best friends. I was the MOH at both her weddings and she was my MOH at my first one...she will not even be invited to this one.

It sucks, but you gotta do it sometimes.
It does suck Martha! I've never really got along with girls. All my life I've always just had guy friends. So to find a girl that I actually got along with was great, but unfortunatly she may be let go too. I will invite her to things, but sure not going to follow up and ask if she's going.
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • VIP Member

Very interesting. It sucks that she has finally admitted that she doesn't want to go, but in a way it's a really good thing. You no longer have to stress and wonder... and you can finally get a bach party planned by the girls who WANT to help!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't understand how I miss these entire vent threads!!! Where the heck am I? Am I really lost in a pool of paperwork. Uggh darn job is ruining my BDW social life. LOL.

 

~Okay Lisa, I just read this entire thread and I cannot believe this whole thing just happened. I have to admit that from reading your posts I kind of got the impression that she really didn't want to go. I think its somewhat of a hassle for her b/c of her kids. This really sucks and is so unfair considering that you guys are best friends and you were there for her when the birth of her children occured. You must be very upest. I recently let a friend go and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. (My FI never liked her either) I hope that with time you will start to feel better and realize that you don't want someone at your wedding that doesn't really want to be there wholeheartedly.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I agree Glenda. I think that if she did go, she would not be there completely in her mind. I almost feel as though she would resent me somehow for making her spend the $$ to go. It really is best for all. I could so see James getting a few beverages in him and tell her what he really thinks...not good!

 

Thank you girls for listening to me vent! Love you all~

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't really get a long with girls either....they are kinda vindictive and bitchy. I have 2 awesome friends that I have known since childhood. They are both completely different but keep me grounded and focused. One is super career driven and very classy. The other is completely self-indulged and slutty. ha!

 

Anyhow, where was I going with this? Oh! I have way more guy friends than girl friends. Guys dont get pissy about things and are so much more fun to hang out with.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.



  • Best Destination Wedding Sponsors



    Facebook Pinterest Google+ Twitter
  • Posts

    • Hi everyone! I have been doing lots of research on various wedding venues all around Mexico, my fiance wants a destination wedding and I am happy to have a wedding wherever so long as the vibe is right and guests are happy!  I have been seriously looking at Cabo Azul and was trying to find potential costs for them, but only found a page about their wedding costs from 2010. Does anyone have any updated information on costs / reviews they would like to share of this venue? Or advice in general, anything helps. Thanks so much, happy wedding planning to all!
    • Hello everyone, I am dreaming of a wedding in Costa Rica and was wondering if I could get any help with venues and wedding planners. I am thinking Tamarindo because a close friend of mine lives there and I've been in town more than a couple of times, she's being helpful but is at a loss when it comes to this subject really so I was wondering if anyone here had recommendations. I am not closed to other town suggestions either, if I happen to find a good place and staff somewhere else. These are the places I have so far, has anyone had any experience with any of them?  Stay In Tamarindo Luxury Villas in Costa Rica Luxury Villas Pinilla Tropical Homes of Costa Rica The Point Luxury Villa Thank you so much for your help!
    • Have you ever considered having a wedding inside a bubble? With the current global situation, many couples are looking for unique and creative ways to celebrate their special day while keeping their guests safe. A wedding inside a bubble could provide a whimsical and intimate setting for your ceremony and reception. Imagine saying your vows surrounded by a beautiful bubble filled with twinkling lights and flowers, creating a magical atmosphere for you and your loved ones to enjoy.
    • Adult only resort or not? Let's discuss the pros and cons of choosing an adult-only resort for your honeymoon. While some couples may appreciate the peace and quiet that comes with an adults-only environment, others may prefer a more family-friendly atmosphere. What are your thoughts on this? Have you had any experiences at adult-only resorts that you'd like to share? Let's hear your opinions and recommendations!
    • When it comes to planning a wedding, one of the most exciting parts is choosing the perfect wedding favours for your guests. These small tokens of appreciation are a great way to thank your loved ones for being a part of your special day and to make them feel appreciated.
  • Topics

×
×
  • Create New...