11 guests canceled today - majorly frustrated!
Posted 11 May 2009 - 03:57 PM
ARE YOU SERIOUS?
Itâ€™s not even in the news anymore. I feel even worse because itâ€™s basically all of my FH family. Iâ€™m the one that really wanted a destination wedding in Mexico. I feel terrible. Theyâ€™re scared of the flu, of the violence, on and on. I honestly think they didnâ€™t want to come in the first place and this was their easy way out. They think of Mexico as this really strange, dangerous place. Itâ€™s just so not warranted.
Itâ€™s so rude to cancel less than 4 weeks out after everything has been purchased, personalized, etc. I canâ€™t believe them! Theyâ€™re all losing their deposits with the travel agency and theyâ€™re fine with that. UGH!
Thanks for letting me vent. I feel bad venting to my parents who have paid for everything as I donâ€™t want to seem ungrateful and FH is really upset too so I donâ€™t want to vent to him.
Now I have to spend the rest of the day at work with a red nose and eyes from all of my crying. POOOOP!
OK, now Iâ€™m going to be excited about the 61 people still coming!
Posted 11 May 2009 - 04:01 PM
61 is still an awesome number. All your hard work will be appreciated!
Posted 11 May 2009 - 04:18 PM
Your wedding is going to be great and they will be missing out.
Posted 11 May 2009 - 04:21 PM
11 people to cancel is quite a lot in 1 day. That is a lot to take! I would recommend to take care of yourself today. Whatever that means to you.
And yes...just focus on the good. 61 people is a lot and you are still able to celebrate with those who truly want to be there with you and your FH.
Hang in there sweetie! And feel free to vent on here. That is what we are here for.
Posted 11 May 2009 - 04:39 PM
I'm going to dance lessons tonight with the FH and am going to enjoy every moment visualizing our first dance on the beach!
Posted 11 May 2009 - 04:43 PM
Enjoy your wedding! It is about you and him.
Posted 11 May 2009 - 04:44 PM
Posted 11 May 2009 - 05:17 PM
So for an experienced bride's point of view (mine ) you will not notice they are not there. I had two people miss the boat going to my wedding and I didn't even notice they weren't there! LOL. I mean, they showed up in MX, but just didn't make the ceremony and I had no clue until they told me the next day. Trust me- it's their loss, not yours. Have a wonderful time! It will be the best experience of your life.
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