We canceled our wedding...
Posted 30 April 2009 - 06:38 PM
Posted 30 April 2009 - 07:15 PM
| Originally Posted by AlmostaSeif |
I am devastated. I can't begin to tell you how horrible all of this is. We began the process yesterday of canceling everything. I feel like I am in some sort of nightmare or something. With the amount of guests that were canceling, it didnâ€™t make sense to have it anymore. My mother is recovering from breast cancer and canâ€™t afford to get sick, so she wouldnâ€™t have been there. My FIâ€™s parents canceled, my sister canceled. Ugh. We had 41 people planning on attending our wedding that is less than two weeks away. I know we could have just gone and had it been who ever showed up, but we couldnâ€™t. FI also didnâ€™t want to risk anything. I know all is fine in Cabo, but we were worried about the travel there and back. I am sure we all would have been fine, but why take any chances? It would have been a constant worry the entire time we were there and then when we got home. I was told by my bosses not to come back to work for awhile to make sure all was ok if I did end up going. To me, that isnâ€™t what all this is about. I stopped crying about it now and am just numb now. I feel like crawling under a rock and staying there. Thanks for letting me vent ladies. I need some pick me ups right now. I canâ€™t stop thinking about the amount of time, money, tears and sweat that I put into this wedding and fear all would have been just fine had we gone. I hate the swine flu.
It is ok to cry-I still do...I told Fiance that I was going to mourn my wedding and he laughed.
Cheer up-you still can do something amazing.
IF you need anyone to vent to-email me
Posted 30 April 2009 - 07:23 PM
Posted 30 April 2009 - 07:25 PM
Posted 30 April 2009 - 08:59 PM
I still feel really sad for you. I feel like I know you because we shared the same wedding weekend. I know you made a sane decision but I know it hurts. You are in my thoughts. I'm still hanging on to my wedding date for now. Please feel free to mail me for support.
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Posted 30 April 2009 - 10:33 PM
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