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Help! What 2 do next?

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#1 Paul'sSoulMate

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    Posted 25 April 2009 - 11:46 AM

    Well I have booked everything and paid, but I am not sure what to do next. I am going with the standard package, but will have a flower and cake upgrade. My dress came in yesterday, I picked it up and my FI has all of his clothing. Now I'm like what do I do next? We only have 4 people going, so there is no big reception, and no oot bags because we are paying for guests to get spa treatments and a candle light dinner. I just feel like I'm missing something. Any ideas or help would be great!

    #2 ehegwer

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      Posted 25 April 2009 - 11:48 AM

      Sit back and surf the web! (I'm sure someone else will have something for you to do.)

      #3 Vikki

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        Posted 25 April 2009 - 09:26 PM

        Enjoy that feeling - I felt like that until I started reading all the forums. Now I feel like my to-do list is out of control-and we've only got 6 people coming...

        I kind of like it though-it makes things fun.

        #4 Vikki

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          Posted 25 April 2009 - 09:27 PM

          Hmm... we have the same taste in signatures huh?

          #5 chicklet

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            Posted 25 April 2009 - 09:29 PM

            do you have rings?? writing your own vows??
            You could put together some music selections (if you are planning on using your own music) and your documents will need to be sent to ROR to arrive one month before your wedding (if it was me, I would do this early to mid june).
            Other than that...sounds like you are all set. Just sit back and enjoy.

            #6 Paul'sSoulMate

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              Posted 25 April 2009 - 10:52 PM

              Thanks guys! I think that I went full speed in the beginning now there isn't much to do. I sent the documents 2 weeks into Feb., and they have contacted me already to verify everything. I may write my own vows becuase it sounds so cool! I guess with all of the free time I'll just stay in the gym. :0)

              #7 Maybride2009

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                Posted 25 April 2009 - 10:57 PM

                how about your wedding jewelry? Or maybe your candle light dinner outfit? Or on the fun side your honeymoon outfits...rawwwr!

                #8 Paul'sSoulMate

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                  Posted 26 April 2009 - 09:47 AM

                  Good idea!! Honeymoon stuff. I love this site you guys are so helpful!

                  #9 islandbride317

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                    Posted 26 April 2009 - 10:28 AM

                    To echo the others, I would say that you should consider yourself lucky and can be thrilled that you are "done" your planning phase already! Are you having an AHR? Maybe you could plan a casual Send-Off or something like a Friends & Family BBQ for after you return. Might be a fun way to share your experience with those that didn't attend...just a thought if you want to stay busy!

                    Half the appeal of a DW is that it can be a super low-stress way to go...how great that you can just ENJOY the rest of your engagement time with your FI!

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