My FI hates my cats
Posted 20 April 2009 - 11:12 AM
Posted 20 April 2009 - 04:00 PM
Posted 20 April 2009 - 04:16 PM
However I told him when I first met him if my meggy didn't like him he was gone and I seriously meant it.
FI is trying it on please don't give in, I know you think he is the love of your life but if he's being like this now god help you in the future. You need to dig your heels in no matter the consequences, you took the cats on it's not right to get rid of them because some bloke decides a time later he doesn't want them.
Posted 20 April 2009 - 04:17 PM
1 day til Florida!!
7 days til the wedding!!
Posted 20 April 2009 - 04:25 PM
From personal experience I can tell you that it will get better. I think you both just need to give it extra time and patience. Cats aren't good with change and it will take them a considerable amount of time to adjust. Hang in there, a year from now, the two of you will be laughing about it all.
Posted 20 April 2009 - 04:45 PM
Posted 21 April 2009 - 10:11 AM
I also talked with my therapist yesterday (I'e had one for years...not just for this)
I've told FI that we have to work this out in a way that will be good for my and my cats because they are a part of me...
and for him because he and I are together as a couple now
...his biggest issue is that he's not getting sleep because they cry.
I'm trying to help him understand that this will take time...and like many of us, he's not a patient person and very stubborn.
But he loves me, and doesn't want to lose me over cats or over anything, so i know we will work this out.
1 step at a time, but we will. I'd like it to be all better all at once, but life doesn't work that way...lol
Thank you so much again. You guys are awesome!!!!
Posted 21 April 2009 - 12:52 PM
Posted 21 April 2009 - 02:30 PM
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