Posted 02 April 2009 - 10:39 PM
thanks everyone! I knew I wouldn't be the only one with these feelings!
| Originally Posted by tdmitchell |
Can you ask your TA to inform everyone that calls that the deadline has passed and they can't book any more?
I probably can...but I would really hate to completely turn people away! they will hate me forever!
| Originally Posted by CaboBride2010 |
wow that would be frustrating!
I would just maybe tell them that if they plan to keep booking that they will not be included in any excursions unless they pay for themselves and that they wont get things like wedding favours since they are already bought. i wonder what people think the RSVP date is for since they never seem to follow it? lol
All the brides that have been saying this has happened to them are making me think that when I make my invitations that I will write this is the RSVP deadline and if you decide to book after this date you will not be included in the special activities outside the wedding and won't be getting things like a welcome bag (but in less words lol)
haha that is what I should tell them! they won't be getting a cool OOT bag! hee hee hee...I can easily change the numbers at the venue and welcome dinner but I may run out of the small things like travel sunscreen...well guess what the late bookers will just be SOL on that
I totally understand.. Our wedding is a month after yours - we set our RSVP dates early (beginning of March) knowing people wouldn't stick to it that closely.. but now it's almost a month after the date and people are still not giving us definite answers.. I can change my numbers with the resort but I wanted to have that done by now and we are ordering OOT bag stuff and flip-flop favors and that order has to be in this weekend.. so even though, I'll probably be annoyed but give in like you, but I guess they just won't get favors..
yep...these people that booked today have been totally wishy-washy for the last couple of months...that is it...no favors for them...I already bought everything!
| Originally Posted by Tammy Host |
i had people rsvping up to 4 days before the WEDDING!! not even departure date...we had one guest get in his car and drive down to cabo.
wow driving all the way to cabo last minute?! that is insane...have to admit though Tammy, thinking about people booking 4 days before...that totally made me laugh! And Abbie...getting RSVPs back AFTER the wedding?! seriously sometimes people make me wonder!