| Originally Posted by Nikki07 |
OMG are you kidding? That is ridiculous!!
Venting AGAIN about people's reactions...
Posted 31 March 2009 - 05:55 PM
Posted 01 April 2009 - 12:36 AM
I kept reminding him of the cost factor for us since my parents aren't helping. He then tells me that its out of spite - they aren't giving us money because they're angry we're planning a wedding "nobody can go to". I honestly don't want their money, I never have as far as the wedding is concerned - it always comes with strings. He then starts bragging that he's getting the money we would have - that they're giving him $7,000 to buy a new truck. All this when they're complaining about coming up with $3,000 to even be able to go. I'm their only daughter for crying out loud! How about using that money to go to my wedding?! So I get told that it's not all about me and to stop being so F-ing selfish. This makes me laugh.
Yes, I do admit that I seem overly angry and, I suppose, rude toward my brother but there's a LOT of back story you aren't hearing and we really haven't had a good relationship for the past couple years - all since they thought they could control the relationship and demand that I break it off with my now fiance. I did a year of therapy after I couldn't take their controlling/manipulative ways anymore. I used to get walked all over so badly and would end up on the floor in the fetal position, crying for hours because they disagreed with me and had decided that its ok to stop speaking to me completely. I finally have balls to stand up and say NO! This is MY life and I'm going to get what I want out of it! - so I can't really be sorry for that. This is only one day in my entire life, I only get to do this once and it may sound selfish - but i'm going to do it MY way....ok, ok - OUR way!
Posted 01 April 2009 - 12:44 AM
Posted 01 April 2009 - 07:58 AM
I'ts hard but you really need to cut contact because that little shit of a brother is going to do your head in
Posted 01 April 2009 - 08:16 AM
Posted 01 April 2009 - 09:33 AM
Posted 01 April 2009 - 11:15 AM
On top of that, I get an email from my "MOH" telling me how much i've changed since I met my fiance and how when she was here dress shopping she doesn't even know who I am anymore, how selfish I am. She says that he's leading me down the wrong path, that she thinks I only asked her to be my MOH because I felt like I had to, and he's not worth alienating family over and that she hopes we have a long happy life together. WTF?!?! I'm sitting at work, trying not to cry my eyes out, thinking we just need to go to Vegas this weekend and get married by ourselves....
Posted 01 April 2009 - 03:17 PM
| Originally Posted by Hartyt509 |
I'd tell the MOH to stick it up her arse too - they'll be sorry when you are married 20 years and they are divorced 5x over lol
Cut them off you don't need them chick x
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