If anything i'velearned planning a destination wedding, its the fact that you will never please everyone. My sister and I have a huge age difference (i'm 8 years older) She's basically shooting herself in the foot, because everyone is seeing a very ugly side to her. She selfish and jealous, and as the wedding approaches and everyone is excited, the more miserable she becomes. She didn't even come to my bridal shower. She gave an excuse that she needed to work (which is fine) except she was caught not working by a mutual family friend. ANYWAY... its my day and I won't let it all bother me. Its childish jealousy and everyone else is determined to keep her in check... LOL. I'm not letting it all bother me, nothings raining on my parade.
Due to weather (IT SNOWED AGAIN) i didn't get my delivery of flowers, hopefully I get them today (FI is at home) but now we have freezing rain... can't WAIT for the beach~
thanks for listenting~
Originally Posted by amurka
Dana, I am so sorry that you are not getting along with your sister right now...hope you will resolve your differences soon...
I found that sometimes when big events like weddings happen family can be some how annoyingly difficult about everything lol but if this is the case for you too, just hold on there girl, I am sure your sister will realize very soon that it is YOUR day at the end and she just needs to be there for you!
And if you need to vent a little we are here to listen, cos i am sure many brides had little "issues" with family while planing their big days..lol