Am I engaged or what???
Posted 27 March 2009 - 09:12 PM
Posted 27 March 2009 - 09:23 PM
Posted 28 March 2009 - 09:50 AM
I guess what I am trying to say is, YOU'RE ENGAGED!
Posted 28 March 2009 - 11:51 AM
I still wanted the "official" proposal though, even though I wanted to help pick out my ring. (What can I say, I am a girl!) So FI kept the ring after we picked it out to "surprise" me with a proposal in the near future. I told him he could wait long! He ended up "officially" proposing about a month later. I say Officially as in he asked me, said a bunch of romantic things and gave me the ring. To me that is when I considered us "engaged." BUT.. had we done things as you did, with setting the date and continuing with the planning, I would consider that engaged.
If you feel like you are missing out on the "pop the question" bit then ask him if he will do a proper proposal when he gets the ring, even if he knows the answer will be yes. Every girl deserves to be told how much the man she loves wants to spend forever with her.
Posted 28 March 2009 - 02:31 PM
Posted 13 April 2009 - 04:58 PM
| Originally Posted by big3n09 |
Not sure if this should have been in the venting section, lol! A year ago now me and my Sweetie had one of our serious sit downs and decided we would get married. We set a date for 8/29/09, which is the date we met on in 2004. When we met I had no intention of our relationship going in the direction it did and the way it did he really surprised me. All in all we love each other very much and have grown in many ways over the past 4 years, we are BFF's. So after our serious discussion we looked at rings (I have expensive taste) and I started doing some planning. Well of course we have been affected by this economy like most people and have some financial challenges to deal with but we have been able to stay afloat and also decided to move our date back 9 months. Well the thing is he never "officially proposed" and I mean asked. I already know that he will get the ring when he can because he gets an A+ in the gift giving department and that's probably why I haven't gotten one yet, but should I consider us engaged? Our families and friends do since we have been talking about it and planning. I guess I'm just stuck right now on he didn't officially ask and maybe he will when he gives me a ring. What are you ladies thoughts, has anyone else had a similar experience?
Yes u are engaged me and my FI basically did the same thing..but he never offically got down on one knee. we just talked about it and stared planning...lol He said he will do it..I'm assumimg once we get the rings, so don't feel alone cause I'm in the same boat. he only part that bothers me is when people ask how did he propose( I hae tha question)
P.S. I hough I was alone, but I see not
Posted 13 April 2009 - 05:15 PM
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