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[echraide]

I like Dilara's idea, but it is VERY personal. Who cares what everyone else says about the ordeal. I would imagine that the anticipation would indeed be heightened if you were apart, but what fun conversations would you and your FI have the night before! Either way, I'll be fine

[SusanJeff2008]

I didn't even thing about it until I saw this thread. We live together too but I still think that we will spend the night apart.

[cgeris]

my FI and I are staying together the night of and he's leaving in the morning to go play a round of golf with the family and get dressed in his friend's room. 
 

Originally Posted by hanna 

Are you guys staying together the night before the wedding or splitting up?

I prefer to stay together, but my MOH and the best man say we should split up. We live together and sleep together every night, so I would prefer to be together. I don't sleep very well when he is away and I don't want to be tired or lonely the night before our wedding. Our parents aren't very traditional so they don't necessarily care. I want to get together with the girls and hang out, just not necessarily all night..

If you guys are staying apart, what are your reasons. Just wondering if I am missing something.

[chell44]

I plan on staying with my fi, and we are even having breakfast together!

[DeAngelis2be]

I think we're going to sleep in separate rooms the night before the wedding to make the day more special. As of right now I'm going to wait until our ceremony to see him for the 1st time. We have living with each other for 2 years so it will add some suspense and excited to that momment when our eyes 1st meet as I'm walking down the aslie.

[amandasalways]

I think I am going to stay in my mom's room the night before the wedding. I dont really know why, and nobody is pressuring me to do it, I just always thought that was part of tradition. I also think that maybe because we are so used to staying together it will make me miss it the night before and make the wedding night all the more special.

[helen9]

I think we will be staying together. we're not really traditional people anyway

[JLR1726]

I think we will be staying apart just for some traditional reasons. i love the excitment that it will bring!

[novagirl3]

I never thought about this detail until now but I think I might like to spend the night apart to heighten the anticipation of seeing him for the first time on our special day. I'm not sure how he'll feel about being kicked out of the room for the night though...lol!   

[LisaMatterni]

It really depends on the couple if they stay together a night before their weddings. If you live together with your FI while you are still dating, then, it doesn't make sense it if you separate before your wedding day. You already live together so don't worry about it.