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Yea...suffice it to say we live together, have kids together, and have known each other in the "Biblical" sense since around night 2 of the relationship. hahaha (yea..I'm a ho). We'll spend the night together in our room (unless his bro/best man has him out cavorting) and then eat breakfast and say our goodbyes til ceremony time (5 o'clock). We'll be on a tiny island, at a fairly small resort, so I'm not even counting on being able to avoid the guy completely. But we won't interact until wedding time.

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I live with my guy but I want all the bridesmaids to stay with me in my room and he can stay with the groomsmen. He dosnt drink so I am not worried he will be hungover. Us girls is a different story. If they want to stay up too late I will bunk with my Mom

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Just an update.. we got married June 5th. It was amazing! And we stayed together the nigh before and it was so nice and comforting. I went to breakfast with the girls, then to the Spa for massages and nails, then back to the room to get ready. It worked out perfect and saw Josh for the first time walking down the isle. I am glad we stayed together the night before, was really sweet to reflect on everything and vent about family frustrations.

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Originally Posted by nikkib View Post
My FI and I have lived together for a little more that three years, so he has seen me looking my best and worst. I plan on staying apart because I think that it will heighten the anticipation of seeing me for the first time that day as I prepare to become his wife.

This is us exactly...FI actually said he wants us to stop having relations 2mnths before we get married...YIKES!!!!! So there will be no sleeping together the night before....

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I really like the idea of having a couples massage together, that is lovely. I was planning to have one and didn't even think of him! (like guys don't like massage too! lol) I will definitely do that. When it's time to get ready we can get ready separately and so it wont spoil the surprise. 

 

 

Originally Posted by TammyB View Post

My DH and I stayed together the night before our wedding, in fact we got up early, got a couple massage and then walked the beach for a little bit. It was such a great way for us to relax and just enjoy a private moment together. After the walk on the beach he headed to one room to get ready and I went back to our room to get ready.

I think you should do whatever it is that makes you both comfortable, weddings can bring on so many emotions, so do what will makes you guys happy.

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We will spend the night together and probably part ways after breakfast on the day of the wedding, i'm not big into traditions so if we happen to meet again it doesn't matter, once he doesn't see me in my dress until i'm at the top of that aisle i don't mind!

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I think this is totally a personal decision. I live with my FI and I agree that I don't sleep as well with him but I really want the first time he sees me on my wedding day to be when I walk down the aisle so I don't plan on spending the night together.

 

Plus I remember my sisters wedding a bridesmaid and me (MOH) stayed in the room with her and it was so much fun!

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This is what we will do!

Originally Posted by ~*petals*~ View Post

We spent the night together, ate breakfast and then parted ways. Didn't see each other until I walked down the aisle!


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