I feel like I cant get anything done with out takeing a vacation... then I need a vacation from doing so much planing on my vacation... I have 25 days I can take in the next 5 months and 5 of them I'm takeing next week (to go see him

My mom is ALOT of help but she is over an hour and a half away and in two weeks she goes in for sergery and will not be able to do much for 6 weeks...
My MOH will not get on the ball to find a dress because she wants to "losse more weight" and she lives 14 hours from me so I cant just go snap a ruller at her hehe
And my other two BM (and the female groomsmen) cant get theres until my MOH pick hers out!!!
I knew having a destanatin wedding would be more work but come on why dose everything have to be long distance...
The only people in my wedding party who live near me are my flower girls and there 2 and 4....
NC, LA, TX, IL, VA, VT, GA.... who dose this to there self!