| Originally Posted by Kat81 |
That is how many people we had... it worked out great.
Yea, Believe it or not, I'm excited that it's going to be smaller then what I expected and that the most important people are coming :-)
| Originally Posted by Jennifer Davis |
While I think it is extremely rude that the GF invited her family members to your wedding without asking you, I think it's nice that they want to come and celebrate your special day with you. Sure the extra money factor is an inconvenience but in the grand scheme of things, what's a couple extra hundred bucks, ya know? Plus, if your cuz is engaged to this girl, the mom and brother are going to be family.
Well it wasn't only about the money...It was more about looking back on my Wedding pictures going, "Who the hell are they??" LOL
To be honest, I didn't want someone I didn't know there, But I know myself and I would have caved in when I got there and totally included them..LOL Just because I would have been so happy to just be there..I know it. Thankfully I don't have to worry about it :-)
| Originally Posted by YoursTruly |
I am mad at you for even considering paying for the unknowns. Tell them you have a count and anything over that will put you over budget which you cannot afford. People need to understand that their presumptiousness is not a green light for you to put yourself in debt.
I agree with you 100%, but as I have said...this is no longer an issue :-) I was mad at myself at first too! But as all the past brides on here have said time and time again...Things have worked themselves out and no need to worry about it anymore :-)
| Originally Posted by mummergirl |
LMAO ... having a hard time feeling sorry for them too, lol. at least now you can have your wedding the way you intended, with whom you intended!
I don't feel sorry. I'm not sure she ever had a job..LOL I love my family, but I honestly only wanted them there because they are my FI's oldest friends and it's bad enough mostly everyone coming is my Family and friends, but now he only has two people up there with him (Plus his ring bearer)
And I know that doesn't matter...I'm not worried about the un-even part, but I just feel bad :-(
He is great about it though..He said besides me, the most important people in his family will be there and that's all he needs...Awww
So we're good to go! :-)
Now I just wish it would come quicker! I am SOO excited!