Is it bad etiquette to not plan wedding far in advance?
Posted 22 February 2009 - 03:59 PM
Posted 22 February 2009 - 06:31 PM
Posted 23 February 2009 - 05:13 PM
Posted 23 February 2009 - 05:45 PM
Having said that, be prepared... you may have some backlash from friends and family regarding the no-notice.... and you'll get a lot of the "I would have went had I been given time to save"... etc....
Posted 24 February 2009 - 10:26 AM
We got engaged last Xmas, and will marry in May. I haven't had any problems or complaints yet.
However, had I wanted to marry in a more exotic location (Bali was one of the choices), I probably would have just planned on having it just be the FH and me. 6 months would definitely not have been enough time to organize a wedding with guests/reception, etc., especially since a lot of the FH's family has never traveled overseas before. So IMHO, a lot of it kind of depends on who you want to have at your DW, and how easy it is for them to get there. If you expect people to get passports/visas, and fly 23 hours to attend your wedding, it would be both practical as well as polite to give them a more than a month or two to plan.
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