Need to vent about SIL!
Posted 25 February 2009 - 07:40 PM
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Posted 03 March 2009 - 09:27 AM
Yesterday was my birthday. She did send a short email in the morning (happy birthday, all the best) and I replied. A long rambling email about:
- Thank you for the birthday wishes
- Wedding planning updates
- I told her for the first time that FI and I put an offer on a house and should find out today if we get it
- And other random updates about life and work (I started a new job a month ago)
....she didn't reply....but her family will stand behind her and defend her. How could she be a bad person, she sent me that first birthday email. She did the same thing with our engagement. The day we announced to his whole family we were engaged, she said nothing to either of us. A few weeks later a generic congratulations card came in the mail. And again, she did the bare minimum to do the "right" socially acceptable thing.
Posted 03 March 2009 - 11:36 AM
Word of advice: Kill her with kindness!! If she doesn't attend be sure to send her a post card letting her know how GREAT of a time your having and wish she were there (even though while your there she'll be the last person on your mind)
Posted 03 March 2009 - 11:47 AM
She even had an issue with the date i chose for the AHR because it's a week before her daughters birthday and she wanted to have a party for her! Give me a break! Now i'm supposed to contact her before i make a move on everything? F*&^ that!
Dont' worry- this is YOUR day and you're probably better off not having her and her negative energy there! Good luck!
Posted 03 March 2009 - 12:23 PM
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 09:13 PM
Here's the thing; if it were just the fact that she's saying she can't afford it, I "might" give her the bennie of the doubt and say it's up to her. BUT...from what you're describing, they aren't exactly hurting for money, and with her attitude from start to finish, it's obviously a snub.
All I can contribute is just....don't worry about her. Seriously. People like that, whether they end up related to you or not, simply aren't worth your effort or consideration. Yea, it's his sister. But that's it. You guys don't have to be BFF's and I haven't seen you say anything about his parents having a problem with you or not liking you...so let the whiney brat prima donna go sulk and be thankful she won't be there with her pouty ass face messin' up your pics. lol
Was that harsh? Actually, I'd really like it if I could talk to her...gimme her #? Please? No? Dangit.
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