OMG . . . I just had a positive home pregnancy test!

[teacherbride]

Aw, congrats! I am so happy for you that FI responded so positively. You must have been so relieved! It must have just been torture keeping that news to yourself. Thanks for sharing with us, I'm sure everything will turn out great!

[lil_miss_frogg]

First off, Congrats! Babies are a blessing! I just want you to know that I had the EXACT same things doneto me that you had that you're worried about....I had my son in October of 07 just 1 year after having my cone biopsy. I carried him full term and then some. They do check your cervix EVERY visit. Don't be worried and remember things happen for a reason.

 

Now you can check the "mommies to be" thread!

[starchild]

Could you move the wedding a few months closer? It would be better than cancelling it all together.

[BillysBride]

Awwww!! SO happy that FI reacted like the man he is obviously! You got a good one there and you guys are going to be FABULOUS!

 

DO yourself a favor and don't research too much before seeing your doc. Believe me, it will just drive you crazy and you don't need the stress. I know it's hard..just stay positive, and expect things to be absolutely perfect. CONGRATULATIONS!

[LAURENANDBILL]

good luck to you!!! dont worry about anything

[binzer]

yay, I'm so glad your fiance reacted so well! I think what you need to do right away is go and talk to your doctor (although I'm sure you're already planning to). You won't be able to make any proper decisions until you know how pregnant you are and what is safe based on your past medical history.

 

I think it's all going to work out fine, and that you'll have a fabulous year! Congrats again

[Andi]

awww congrats! I am glad everything went well when you told your FI!

[SAM]

Congratulations to you and your FI. Being a mom is such a wonderful experience. I would do what is best for you, your FI and your baby. Don't worry to much about your family and guests...they will understand and a baby is always such a blessing to a family. Talk with your doctor and he/she should be able to advise you.

[MsShelley]

Congratulations that is great news! I would have to agree, if it works out, I would try to move it up a bit

[luvtoteachlaw]

We have our first doctor appointment on Monday, March 2nd, which is only one week away, thank God!

 

I have done one of those due date calendars and it looks like I might be 11 weeks along now. That is further than I thought . . . which certainly means we will definitely be moving up the date.

 

My man has really handled this whole thing so well! I think he is excited, too, even though it throws us into a bit of a tailspin. He keeps looking at my belly and rubbing it! He left to go back an fly another trip, and kissed my belly before he left today.

 

We were already having family drama on his side with the fact that we were doing a destination wedding, so this is likely to bring more, especially given the fact that I am pregnant and we are not yet married (his family is VERY Catholic and can be judgemental). I can only imagine what the future step-monster-in-law will do with this information. I am sure that I will be blamed for this "change of events". Screw her.

 

I am upset with the fact that some people will not be able to come now - all my friends will still be teaching college if we move up the date. Also, some of fiancee's family has already bought tickets for our date, which is going to piss them off. Amazingly enough, we did not buy tickets yet, so we don't have any issues with that.

 

I am thinking I might still be able to wear my dress if we get married the end of April. The question is, when do I get it tailored now? I haven't done anything yet.