My Marriage is Over!!!
Posted 20 February 2009 - 04:50 AM
Posted 20 February 2009 - 07:41 AM
| Originally Posted by EricaG |
MarieSam - All he did physically was bang my head against the wall, but if I would have tried to take the kids out of the apt that night, I know that it would have been a lot more than that. When he drinks, he gets into these rages and everything in life that isn't wonderful becomes my fault! He has this look of hate and evil in his eyes and there is no sign of the man I loved or married. As soon as he sobers up he is back to himself and starts apologizing for what was said and done, which usually he doesn't remember anything or only bits and parts. Then come the promises of never drinking again and blah, blah, blah!
Knowing now that he's gotten violent with you, makes me believe even more, that you are doing the right thing by keeping your distance from him. Your kids are truly blessed to have your strength and courage, so keep doing what you're doing and take care of yourself. No woman should ever have to deal with someone who would ever harm her or her chidren.
Posted 20 February 2009 - 03:53 PM
Posted 20 February 2009 - 04:00 PM
Posted 20 February 2009 - 04:07 PM
Stand up for yourself, and that quad is rightfully yours, so make sure you get it back. FIL will eventually realize that you're not the bad guy, but for right now, hang in there girl *hugs*
Posted 20 February 2009 - 04:38 PM
Posted 20 February 2009 - 06:15 PM
Posted 20 February 2009 - 06:22 PM
| Originally Posted by Hartyt509 |
Erica - call the poilice and tell them you want an member of them present to get your stuff as he is being verbally abusive because of the situation they should do it and FIL has no say in it. You got anything to prove its yours? If so take it. You don't have to take shit from him he should be kissing your feet for looking after his grandkids
I completely agree with Harty on your current predicament. The police will help you. I have had a lot of personal experience with men that have temper issues to say the least.
Hang in there and if you ever need to talk; let me know.
Posted 20 February 2009 - 07:00 PM
And as for the dad, yes, he's taking it on you. He's not seeing your side of what is going on and that's not right. He should be supportive and be glad that you got yourself and the kids out of a bad situation. His son needs help and it had to come this because what he was doing... what else did he expect you to do? How would have felt if something happened if you didn't do something.
Call the police, ask for an escort, make sure you have the papers for proof.
You need another person to be putting you down. I wouldn't let the kids around him for awhile until calms down and comes to realize what you did was right... because who knows what he'll be saying in front/to them.
Posted 20 February 2009 - 10:53 PM
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