A Little Down Today... :(
Posted 04 February 2009 - 06:03 PM
It happens with every one, don't dwell on it just think to yourself "tosser!!" and you feel much better lol I do it every day lol
Posted 04 February 2009 - 06:09 PM
Posted 04 February 2009 - 09:49 PM
I am sure everything will work out just fine and you will live happily ever after!
Posted 05 February 2009 - 01:10 AM
| Originally Posted by Betsy |
I'm sorry you are having a rough time! DH and I rarely fight - unless I spend too much money - then it is a HUGE fight! I think that is the root of all evil LOL! I do know this will pass and you guys will make up and look back and maybe even laugh about the huge fight you got into 2 weeks before your wedding ! I'm sure the stress levels are high anyways with it being just around the corner - but you both love each other and trust me, everything will work out! Good Luck sweetie!
Of course, each couple has to find a system that works for them, and even with a system that works, you'll still have spats over wishing you could spend money that you don't really have or wishing you had more money to spend.
I'm sorry you guys had a fight. I hope your week gets better. :-)
Posted 06 February 2009 - 11:30 AM
Has he been involved in any of the planning? Does he know what money is being spent where? If they have no idea what money is going where and just hear the dollar amount it can be tough to swallow. The biggest expense is going to be the flight and hotel usually.
And yep, money can be the cause of a lot of fights.
But try to cheer up a bit... weddings can bring out the worse in people sometimes since it can cause a lot of stress regardless. All the money fights won't be brought up once you guys are headed on plane.
Posted 06 February 2009 - 01:38 PM
Thanks for all of your support, we actually had a talk the other night and I said that I think we should both not talk about the cost of the wedding anymore since it's all pretty much a done deal now. I think we agreed to that much so it's all good.
Jpitts - Yeah, he knows how much is being spent where, he's just the kind of guy that figures weddings shouldn't cost as much as they do...which is true but unrealistic since it's a huge money-making industry lol.
Thanks again, I love you ladies!!!
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