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thats all i think about too!! i am sooo pumped :)

as long as he shows, im happy haha

 

and yeah, he is bringing someone else - but just as of recently - and she has been acting this way for awhile. so who knows! ill just let it play out - it will go how its supposed to.

 

oh yeah, interesting and complicating for sure! i keep forgetting thats its MY wedding, and i shuoldn't be trying to make everyone else happy hehe :)

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Krista.baird,

Invitations update!

so i went to my MOH's house to talk to her about the invitations that i still HADN'T received yet (she didnt' know i was coming by haha) - i thought a little surprise would sort of put her on the spot and she would have to show me them - so i asked if i could see them and she started to get really flustered and sort of anxious that i was there. so i was just like "listen, i dont want to make this a big deal, if you dont have time to finish them then hand it over and i can do it myself. otherwise tell me what is going on" - so she said she did't know how to tell me that she hadn't even started them yet!!!!! UGHHH not even one! she has had them for 4 or 5 months. grrrr!!

so i got all my stuff back and am going to start them myself tonight!

so much hassle and waiting/trying to be patient for nothing. geeeeeze!!

 

ah well, learned my lesson - if you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself hehe..

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Krista.baird,
Invitations update!
so i went to my MOH's house to talk to her about the invitations that i still HADN'T received yet (she didnt' know i was coming by haha) - i thought a little surprise would sort of put her on the spot and she would have to show me them - so i asked if i could see them and she started to get really flustered and sort of anxious that i was there. so i was just like "listen, i dont want to make this a big deal, if you dont have time to finish them then hand it over and i can do it myself. otherwise tell me what is going on" - so she said she did't know how to tell me that she hadn't even started them yet!!!!! UGHHH not even one! she has had them for 4 or 5 months. grrrr!!
so i got all my stuff back and am going to start them myself tonight!
so much hassle and waiting/trying to be patient for nothing. geeeeeze!!

ah well, learned my lesson - if you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself hehe..
OMG!!!!!!!! WHAT!!!huh.gif Who does that? That's terrible! I mean I can see why she would be anxious/nervous to tell you because she was probably anticipating that you would be upset, but what the heck? seriously, what is she trying to do?? Is she just a bad procrastinator?

Ugh, well, it sucks that you have to do them all now, however, at least you now have peace of mind to know what is going on with them. Plus, you can make sure they are done the way you want them done. And, yes, I'm a firm believer in if you want something done right you have to do it yourself...lol....

Your FI is probably relieved now too! I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Thankfully you were able to deal with it so well. And I don't think how you handled it was mean at all. I think you are a good friend for how you handled it! I would have freaked out...lol... smile41.gif

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Krista.baird,
Invitations update!.......
ah well, learned my lesson - if you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself hehe..
OMG!! I just read this. You poor thing. 4-5 months she has had those. Wow! I am speechless. You seem like a very nice & sweet person, not sure why your MOH cdnt just say she hasn't had the time or just admitted months ago that she really didn't want to do them. Oh well, you are right about the lesson learned. It's still unfortunate. I know things will all fall into place for you!

Congrats and happy planning from here on out!!! smile03.gif

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OMG!! I just read this. You poor thing. 4-5 months she has had those. Wow! I am speechless. You seem like a very nice & sweet person, not sure why your MOH cdnt just say she hasn't had the time or just admitted months ago that she really didn't want to do them. Oh well, you are right about the lesson learned. It's still unfortunate. I know things will all fall into place for you!

Congrats and happy planning from here on out!!! smile03.gif
Aww thanks so much!! a minor set back, all is good now! i feel a lot of relief, which is fantastic. Now things should start to go a bit smoother wink.gif

Happy planning to you too smile29.gif

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hi ladies,

i feel like the time is flying. august 7 is right around the corner! i am slightly annoyed because i'm working with destinationweddings.com and i'm not happy with my TA. i just sent a note telling them i'd like a new TA (specifically Sue Adams because I've heard great things). I wish I would've worked with Tammy and her TAs but I didn't learn about them until I joined the forum - which was after I set the date (sigh). I just feel that if you're my stinkin TA I should be able to count on you to be responsive and be helpful! My TA has been neither! ugh.

But I will not let it steal my excitement. T-minus 7 months until the big day!

BagLover - i hear ya. I am working with destinationweddings.com too - and i definitely have a few concerns and worries about them. i am going to see how it all plays out in the next few months but i am going to definitely price compare, too. what are your concerns with that site?

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I am also working with destinationweddings.com, so far things have been good, but I also have only been working with them for a month so I would love to hear the concerns as well.

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I am also working with destinationweddings.com, so far things have been good, but I also have only been working with them for a month so I would love to hear the concerns as well.
I am too! Who's your TA? I'd never recommend mine, I've already tried to switch coordinators and they begged me to give him another shot. He's about to be switched for real if I don't get my freaking quote... sorry, pent up anger! :)

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I'm getting married at Riu Palace Riveria Maya on December 20! Just got confirmation that the date and time is available and being held for me as I book! :) Any planning tips? I figure I have the resort and the date, these are the biggies in my opinion!

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