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#21 LisaG

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    Posted 20 April 2007 - 04:29 PM

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    Girls, this seems to be a universal problem. I was so fricking pissed at my husband's family because they did the exact same thing you are describing. Just do what you need to do to feel comfortable & let go. You can't force people to RSVP (this is what I learned anyway).
    Hey Christa - how cool is it to type/say "my husband"

    #22 A10CalGal

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      Posted 20 April 2007 - 04:39 PM

      It's pretty cool Lisa! I'm still having to remind myself he's my husband & not my fiance...

      #23 TammyWright

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      Posted 20 April 2007 - 06:34 PM

      my rule was, if they did not send the RSVP card or give it to us filled out then i assumed they were nto coming...they could still come to cabo, there just want a guarantee that there would be a place for them at the reception.

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      #24 starchild

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        Posted 30 April 2007 - 06:02 AM

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        But I'm still upset about the complete lack of disregard for the RSVP prcess I've experienced from my family and friends. I don't understand it. Grr.
        OK I'm way late on this but you summed up my feelings with that statement. It's both sad and upsetting. I've also had to call people and ask if they were coming because they didn't send the rsvp. I get responses like "oh, I misplaced it", "I forgot, you know I'm coming", "I won't know until May" and "it's cute so I want to keep it". I made my final round of phone calls. There are a few people who have been totally wishy washy who I am done chasing after and I took them out of the count. At this point if these people show up in Mexico they won't be allowed to board the boat that goes to the wedding, and you know what? I won't feel bad. Friendships can end, fueds can start, I'm done with it. Shouldn't we be the ones catered to?!?!?

        #25 Christine

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        Posted 30 April 2007 - 08:50 AM

        I sent out my invites at the end of March and my own mother has yet to respond! I feel your pain. My mail deadline ends tomorrow, so people better get started on the website rsvp.
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        #26 Jessica

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          Posted 30 April 2007 - 09:14 AM

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          "it's cute so I want to keep it"
          Haha!!! That is the best reason I've ever heard. Pretty ballsy on their part though, to just say, yeah, I'm going to keep it, not send it back to you like you want.

          #27 TammyWright

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          Posted 30 April 2007 - 01:06 PM

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          "it's cute so I want to keep it".

          steve's grandma did this but it was ok because we knew for sure she was coming...tickets and rooms were booked.

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