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[erinleigh]

Welcome Sandshara! I'm with you...a little freaked about leaving things to fall into place (I'm a control freak) but I'm trying to stay positive and calm!! I'm sure we will all have amazing wedding days!

[Prettyhazardous]

Hey ladies I am so over organizing that I don't have that everything will fall into place woe. My feeling is that It's so over planned that I won't be able to enjoy it bc I've rehearsed everything in my mind so many times Surprisingly enuf I'm not freaking out yet. I guess bc everything's working out okay so far. I mean don't get me wrong we have had SO many issues, that I'm just starting to roll with the punches. We got engaged on 1.1.09 and this has proven to be the most stressful and tiring 9 months of my life. I can't wait to get into married life and just be able to take a deep breathe you know (hahaha as if it will be that easy).

[jmb0902]

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Originally Posted by sandshara Hey all you November brides!!! This is my first post, sorry for taking so long to get on here My wedding is planned for 11/11/09 at Dreams Tulum. My ceremony time is 2pm... I'm a little worried the sun will be too blinding at this time of day. Is anyone else having this issue?!? p.s. Is anyone just now starting to freak out about this whole "when you get there everything will fall into place" thing!!! I want it to fall into place now!!!

Welcome girl!! I am a DT bride too... a little later on in the month than you. My ceremony time is unfortunately 12:00... so so I feel you on that! I hate that we can't really plan reception location and all that until a month out! That's when I will start going crazy I think...

[sandshara]

Well ladies I just got the official 1-2month before "fill everything out with your choices" email. Thank goodness we can change things when we get there... I hope! And my coordinator, Anabel, was very speedy on her response to my questions this time... that's a plus

[SgtPepperette]

So Im a little disappointed. My bachelorette party is October 23rd. I have 3 coworkers that are invited. 1 of them I go to breakfast and lunch with everyday...actually have been doing that for almost 4 years now. I would have considered her one of my closests work friends. Shes been so nice to have during my planning process, very supportive! Well she was making suggestions on things for my bachelorette party, and how if any help was needed she'd love to help. Well I told her the date we picked last week (invites havent gone out yet). So yesterday morning at breakfast we were talking about the unpaid time off we have to take in the next two months. She than went on about how she was so excited to be going to Cedar Point on October 23rd. I said, oh no, your going to miss my bachelorette party. Long awkard silence. Than she said, sorry about that..and I was looking forward to it. I dont remember you telling me the date. I than changed the subject.

This morning she says, your not mad are you? I said, of course not. Just a little disappointed. She said well thats the only weekend I can go to Cedar Point and I havent gone yet this year. I have all these other things every other weekend and she starts naming them. Things you could do anytime of the year really. I than ask her who shes going with and its people she doesnt seem to fond of. At least thats how she talks about them all the time.

I dont know. My feelings were a little hurt. I guess because this is the only event Im having prewedding back here that brings all my friends together. And she coud of gone to Cedar Point anytime, but my bachelorette party is only one time. Maybe Im just being bratty.

[amandseth]

Hang in there, Sgt. Pepperette! Don't sweat the small stuff. I had my stagette last weekend, and it was also missing a few key people. But quite frankly, I had an amazing time regardless! And for the amount of quality time I actually got to spend with each girl, it's hard to be upset with those who didn't make it a priority. In retrospect, it wouldn't have been worth them changing their plans just to watch me making an ass of myself, only to get to enjoy brief snippets of conversation throughout the evening. And maybe she doesn't feel comfortable going out with you and friends she doesn't know. I gave a few of my friends, who didn't know anyone else, the option of bringing their own friend. The more the merrier, right?

[amandseth]

PS. Vikki, I LOVE that cake topper!! Might order it myself and glue a little net onto the mans walking stick, since my fiance is an entomologist!! Thanks for the link!!

[Vikki]

Ugh, I'm home sick today. All week actually. I feel like I should be doing something but I keep re-organizing my list instead.

[Erika J]

Melissa-do worry about it, 1 of my friends missed my shower cause she "forgot" and another bailed to go to the football game (note the football game started y 4 hours later). To each their own and you cant control others behavior. It is only a representation of them.

[SgtPepperette]

Thanks Ladies I was just having an sensitive moment, which happens more often than I like! Especially when it comes to friendships