Calling all November 2009 Brides!
Posted 16 September 2009 - 09:30 AM
Posted 16 September 2009 - 09:53 AM
What a pain.
If more others just show up at the wedding I will be happy, but annoyed at the same time. I will have 2 extras of everything, but that's it for just in case purpose.
Posted 16 September 2009 - 10:10 AM
He asked how many invites were sent, I reminded him about 50 and said most were family and relatives. Then he asked how many orginially said yes, so I said originally, we would have had around 20 people that said they would come. Of course he was trying to remember who they were, so I had to remember the names myself and why they decided not to come.
Then I said we might have had a extra few more if we didn't go with the resort we picked, but the sister hotels on the resort were cheaper that other knew that could have stayed at one of those regardless (I listed the Lindo and Maya as optional hotels to stay at)... it would have been around 2000 per couple instead 3000.
Then I said, I think a lot of them are not thinking of it as a vacation just more they have to pay to go to a wedding. And that honestly, it wouldn't have mattered if it was 3000 or 1000, most of them still wouldn't have went to pay to go to a wedding. I also kind of reminded him that we didn't go a wedding in BC because we didn't want to pay the money to go at the time. He said true you got a point there.
Finally, I say, it doesn't matter who doesn't come. Your parents, my parents, and sister will be there. They are the most important people we could have to be there.
I asked him if he wanted an AHR to have the family and friends to get together that couldn't come, but he said no.
I also said I know that both of us agreed on marrying down south for the longest time, but do you wish now that we were getting married back east? He said no, don't what that.
I was still surprised that he brought it up though.
Posted 16 September 2009 - 10:43 AM
PS. My favors are sandalwood fans, which I'll leave on the guests seats at the ceremony.
Posted 16 September 2009 - 11:10 AM
We think the incident with the studio occurred during the day while we were at work. But Cuji was stolen last night while I was home and my FI was out fishing. We are doing everything humanly possible to find her but she was a beautiful pit bull and we fear that someone either stole her to try to breed her (guys ask ab it all the time) but she's been neutered bc we got her from the spca so we also explain that that isn't possible. But our worst fear is that someone took her to fight her. While she is a pitbull she is the friendliest dog you'll ever meet and she not at all aggressive so we fear that they'll use her for practice which is really killing me.
Also I don't know if you guys read my rant ab our bestman not being able to afford to attend the wedding so we canceled he trip last month. Well yesterday my fi texted me so excited bc the bestman had set up alot of studio work for the next couple of weeks so that he could attend the wedding. And of course all of their studio equipment was stolen last night so now he won't be able to go. I am so stressed out right now. It just seems like when one door opens for us, 10 doors slam shut in our faces....
Posted 16 September 2009 - 11:17 AM
Posted 16 September 2009 - 02:55 PM
Try not to get too discouraged with the other stuff. Hopefully your homeowners/renters insurance will cover the items stolen??
Posted 16 September 2009 - 05:09 PM
Posted 16 September 2009 - 05:37 PM
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