Calling all November 2009 Brides!

[sunset78]

Vikki, that is pretty good considering. I know I'm going to be over budget that's a fact.

[JOSIE]

4 months today!!!!!!!! so exciting I am so bad at keeping up with this thread!!! Hope all you girls are doing great!

[JOSIE]

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Originally Posted by SgtPepperette My problem is I dont want to EVER remember being this size! Im the heaviest Ive ever been. I will say that with all the running, cycling, and kickboxing Ive done my legs to look nice. Even if they are big. Maybe Ill just have to find outfits that show of my good parts. We were doing a bathing suit scene and I dont think I can pull that off now! I know my FI would never expect this, and he always tells me how beautiful I am no matter what size I am. I wish I could just get over it already!

This is pretty much why I'm passing on BD pics for now. I'm SO self concious and am at almost my highest weight and dont feel comfortable at all! FI & I workout really consistently and I'm totally pushing myself. Trying to lose around 25-30 before the wedding and if I can do that any time a little before then I'll do BD...if not I can always make it an anniversary present, right!?

[NaM]

Yay 4 months!!! 3 months seems so intimidating for some reason. I'm ready for it to be here but then again I don't want it to be over yet!!!

I can't even fathom making a done/to do list...it'll probably be longer than I want it to be. We never set a budget so it'll be interesting to go back after the fact and see how much we actually spent. We were kind of like" let's just do it...within reason!"

Josie, I think it'll make a great anniversary present. I think he'll be even more surprised then

[Love3]

Hi Nov 09 bride here! Thought I posted on here Getting married in Nov 2009 @ Rose Hall Suites Montego Bay Jamaica

[Prettyhazardous]

Hey love I think u did post here. lol.

[Vikki]

BD pictures are so much fun. A good photographer WILL make you look and feel like a million bucks if you're willing to be open and creative and you may find it helps you feel better about yourself. Remember our FI's don't see us through our eyes (thank god!). All the flaws you think you see he's blind to and I know he will love the result!

 

But if thinking about doing them adds stress right now don't feel like you *have* to do them. There's always the 1 year, 5 year, ect..... Being a bride is supposed to be fun so try to enjoy.

[EDSROSA]

I never heard of BD pics before BDW. I would love to do it but I am sooo shy and self conscious. For those of you who have done it, how was it?

[Gr8ful]

Hi all -- we sent out our first "wave" of invitations, and are starting to get responses. There are a lot of people who I knew wouldn't come who aren't -- I can't help but feel a little disappointed, even though I KNEW they weren't going to come (i.e. family members with newborns).

 

Has anyone else experienced this? Also, did I send them out too early? I thought since this is destination, more time is better (Nov 14th, 2009). Oh well -- thanks for the vent! :-)

[EDSROSA]

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Originally Posted by Gr8ful Hi all -- we sent out our first "wave" of invitations, and are starting to get responses. There are a lot of people who I knew wouldn't come who aren't -- I can't help but feel a little disappointed, even though I KNEW they weren't going to come (i.e. family members with newborns). Has anyone else experienced this? Also, did I send them out too early? I thought since this is destination, more time is better (Nov 14th, 2009). Oh well -- thanks for the vent! :-)

Yeah I felt the same way. I guess even though I knew they werent coming a part of me still had hope. The one person who I thought would come and isnt is my FBIL. My fiance is having a really hard time dealing with this (they are really close) and I try to sugarcoat it but its not working.