Wedding the same day as mine!!!
Posted 15 January 2009 - 07:39 PM
Talk it out and find out if there is another reason behind all this!
Posted 15 January 2009 - 07:57 PM
Posted 15 January 2009 - 09:26 PM
No. That's just not going to work. Want me to talk to him? I'll set him straight. He thinks his wife is going to be flattered by a vow renewal the same day as your wedding?
1) She'll be pissed that she has to share her day as much as you would be (and me also in that case).
2) She'll be pissed that he is trying to pinch pennies on a vow renewal by doing a "joint wedding." Who does that?!
It's very sweet that he wants to do this for their marriage and I am sure she will love it. But she will love it more if the delivery is executed in a way that makes it their unique day.
Posted 15 January 2009 - 09:58 PM
| Originally Posted by MarieSam |
Oh HELL NO!!!! Although he has good intentions, your cousin's husband is clearly clueless as to how tacky, obtrusive and ridiculous of an idea this is to piggyback your day and do a double wedding?? Put your foot down girl!!!
Let him know, that while you think it's wonderful that he's trying to surprise your cousin, this is a special day that is important to both you and FI. Tell him you guys really want to just focus on each other that day and it's something you've planned for a long time. If necessary, bring up the idea of maybe doing it in the days AFTER your wedding...although to me, that's still a bit tacky
But yes ~ I strongly support a big HELL NO to the idea!!!!
Posted 16 January 2009 - 12:25 PM
Just be nice and kindly explain to him that it would hurt your feelings because you want that day to be YOUR day and you don't want to share it. BUT....you wouldn't care if he did that the next day or so after YOUR day.
Posted 16 January 2009 - 04:25 PM
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