Wedding the same day as mine!!!
Posted 14 January 2009 - 08:39 PM
Then he tells me he wants to do it during the week we are in Puerto Vallarta!! This was when i started to think this is my wedding have your own DW but I didnt know how to tell him that! But this gets better he tells me if maybe FI and I wouldnt mind splitting costs with him and holding our weddings on the same day together!! Is he on crack?? I dont want to be too bitchy because I love my cousin to dearly but this is MY DAY !! FI and I think that if her husband wants to be romantic and have a vow renewal to do it after our wedding maybe the next day. I think were being nice enough to offer that suggestion! Why cant he be romantic when we come back or some other time? why would he think this was going to be ok? I feel like he is stealing my thunder!!! Well ladies what do you think I should do? How should I tell him that I dont want to share my special day? Thanks girls I know only you would understand my frustrations!
Posted 14 January 2009 - 09:01 PM
Posted 14 January 2009 - 09:08 PM
I would just be up front with him and tell him that this is your day and you do not want to share it. I don't think there is anything wrong with saying that and I wouldn't consider a direct response like that bitchy at all.
Your cousin's husband obviously doesn't "get it". If he did, he wouldn't have even suggested something so ridiculous - I think only a flat out "no" would set hiim straight.
Posted 14 January 2009 - 09:17 PM
Posted 14 January 2009 - 09:29 PM
I would just be honest with him...
Posted 14 January 2009 - 09:52 PM
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