to invite all, or to not invite all
Posted 10 April 2007 - 03:07 PM
Posted 10 April 2007 - 03:09 PM
We did the "who would I have coffee or a beer with alone" rule. Would either FI or I sit and chat with X if we weren't being forced together by a family event.
Posted 10 April 2007 - 03:14 PM
Posted 10 April 2007 - 04:03 PM
| Originally Posted by tvt |
Kooko for coco puffs. I like that analogy!! I'm the same way - damned if I do, damned if I don't. I'm very close to a few select aunts/uncles and not close at all with the rest. But I know if I invite some and not all people are going to be upset.
I am leaning towards "the more the merrier" and inviting them all. My main concern is what happens if only Joe's immediate family shows up and they make up 4 of 30-40 guests. I know people say that DW guests get to know each other fast, but his parents are VERY quite and pretty much the opposite temperment of the rest of my family. I'm mostly worried about them and feeling left out....
As for getting to know each other--- don't worry about it. They aren't there to meet everyone else you invited. They are there to spend time with you! As long as you spend some time with your guests, they will be fine and have a great time. And just like any other social situation, they will either start meeting other people in their own, or they'll be fine left to their own devices.
Posted 10 April 2007 - 04:11 PM
Posted 10 April 2007 - 07:17 PM
Posted 10 April 2007 - 09:13 PM
| Originally Posted by NHPT |
yeah we invited as if it were a "normal wedding" and lots more people are coming than we expected- which is fine with us, but if you really want a small wedding then beware...............
| Originally Posted by NABUMBAH |
We invited everyone ... only expected about 75.. and we had over 130. So just beware if you do!
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Posted 11 April 2007 - 03:01 AM
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