K I sort of just tallied up what the costs of everything are looking like. One month to go still though!
Ceremony & Reception @ Dreams ~$2200
Flowers ~ $1600
Photographer ~$4000 (with travel)
Lighting, table linens, chairs, dance floor $2100
Wine ~ $1000
Favors & OOT bags ~$800
Wedding dress and Groom outfit and accessories $4800
Bridesmaids and Groomsmen outfits (we paid we have 2 each) ~$1000
Hair and makeup 2 bms and me, hair and makeup trial for me, plus mani/pedis for moms, bms and me ~1500
Invitations & STDs ~$2000
Our stay for 10 days (used points for business class flights) ~$2200 (I think but I cannot remember)
Sooooooo that looks like about $25,350, if I added right. I dunno how some of you are doing it for $6K because I felt like we were being really budget. The good thing is we've been engaged for over 2 years so we paid for a lot of this stuff over time.
Our honeymoon - We did our honeymoon actually before our wedding because the timing was better. And it was so completely out of control I'm not adding it up, I did an estimate, and let's just say it was ridiculous.