Wow, I am so glad I stumbled upon this thread.... so much good info!
My fiance and I are planning a DW for May 2012 (we think). We originally were plannig a traditional wedding in NY, then thought about a DW in Mexico, then Bahamas, then Jamaica, and our latest idea is Aruba!
I do think Aruba is going to be "the one" (although I'm sure I've said that a few times throughout the process LOL). I just LOVE the idea of having a private affair on the island at the Renaissance. It looks so beautiful and special.
Any and all advice/tips/suggestions/etc that anyone has would be greatly appreciated!!!