Our first "real" fight as a married couple...
Posted 18 December 2008 - 01:17 PM
I have had a week from hell (i feel bad saying that, because i know there are some people that are worse off than me...but I am going to be selfish and bitch about my issues for a moment...lol.) First, I found out on Monday morning that my Grandpa had a severe stroke. Growing up, this man was the closest thing i had to a father. He and my grandma are the reason that my mom and sister and I weren't living on the streets. I am beyond devastated, but he is improving so that's what's keeping me from totally losing it!
Then on Tuesday, I was trying to park the damn truck that my DH drives and I ACCIDENTALLY backed in to this ladies' vehicle. (In my defence, the amount of snow we have in this city and the condition of the roads in the parking lots is not ideal!!!!) I left her a note with my info to call me blah blah. Well, my DH is BEYOND pissed at me. Yes, i completely understand it's crappy timing (xmas, and him being laid off for a month) but why can't he BE MY FRIEND through this?!?!?!?!?!?!?! He is the type of person that gets soooooo frustrated when people make (in his mind) dumb mistakes....I keep trying to tell him that life is full of accidents and mistakes, but it's like he doesn't get it. So for the past few days, he's barely been talking to me or returning my text messages. I'm sad trying to deal with my Grandpa and I absolutely HATE fighting with people, especially Doug. I know this is one of those "give him time" situations, so I just have to hang in there....but it still sucks in the meantime!!!
Thanks for listening!
Posted 18 December 2008 - 01:43 PM
Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:36 PM
I live in Calgary as well and I will say this, the roads suck and there have been a TON of accidents in the last week or so. Just last night I had to have 4 people push my car away from a curb because I was so stuck! So, I think that it's not really your fault with the accident.
I'm sorry your week wasn't so good but I'm sure it will get better!!!
Posted 18 December 2008 - 03:28 PM
Posted 18 December 2008 - 07:30 PM
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Posted 19 December 2008 - 01:47 PM
Posted 20 December 2008 - 08:24 AM
This may seem harsh and I know you don't want to do it but you need to play DH at his own game, he's acting like a spoilt brat so treat him like one lol It'll kill you but don't text him and give him the cold shoulder i bet all of a sudden he'll start talking to you. Works everytime with FI who is also a spoilt brat about some things lol
Posted 20 December 2008 - 02:54 PM
Posted 20 December 2008 - 06:24 PM
Keep your head up during these trying times....I agree with everyone that DH shouldn't ignore you, thats the worse feeling. I hope he really comes around soon, besides you are human and accidents do happen.
Posted 21 December 2008 - 03:47 AM
And turn on that heel, and walk away, girl! Thats what works on my hubby if he's being a brat.
On the other hand, when he's furious, I stay the F**K away. He once wanted me away from him so badly that sat outside our front door (we live in a condo building) and ate a bowl of cereal!!
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