Why can't a be arsed????

[Hartyt509]

For some reason I really can't be arsed with this wedding anymore lol

 

I've got loads I should be doing and just have no inclination to do it. I mean its not even as if its been stressful it hasn't really. It's had its moments I suppose but really its not been bad.

 

Now everytime someone mentions the wedding I just get bored and feel myself tuning out lol I suppose it doesn't help that EVERYONE is saying are you sure about this lmao

 

Argggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

[YoursTruly]

what you are feeling is not at all uncommon. I too have ben feeling this but primarily due to a lot of personal priorities and issues. Then when wedding stress comes on, I definitely feel at times that I can't really be bothered but it passes because at the end of the day, someone has to wrap this all up and make it come together. I am one of those if you want it done "do it yourself type of persons" and the same applies for the wedding. I find that even though I say my priorities does not equate to another person's emergency, people just don't respond in the timely manner in which I would like so best to be mad at myself if something does not go right.

 

I am sure you are not even considering the notion that you are making a mistake about the marriage in itself, so just keep plugging along and everything will work out just fine in the end. Especially as you get closer and closer to the date. Best of luck.

[Sloan]

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Originally Posted by Hartyt509 For some reason I really can't be arsed with this wedding anymore lol I've got loads I should be doing and just have no inclination to do it. I mean its not even as if its been stressful it hasn't really. It's had its moments I suppose but really its not been bad. Now everytime someone mentions the wedding I just get bored and feel myself tuning out lol I suppose it doesn't help that EVERYONE is saying are you sure about this lmao Argggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

LOL! Im in the same boat. Everyone is busy planning their weddings and Im just happy to sit around and watch everyone else on this forum plan. I couldnt be bothered with my own. That's what the resort WC is for. This is why we arent having the big reception extravaganza in Canada - I cant be bothered with it. Dont get me wrong - I love FI and want to be married, but really, both of us want it short and sweet and get to the drinking, partying and laying around on the beach.

[Jacqueline]

harty omg i feel the same way. i just want it to be done, i enjoy planning it all but recently i feel bored or just plain sick of it. lol but i need to continue planning though since its approaching fast! haha id rather have it all done now so i can enjoy it as it gets closer kwim?

 

maybe take alil break and get back into after a few weeks. that is, if you dont need a lot done. im not sure where u are in your planning...

[DallasAshli]

I'm on holiday from planning!! I'm taking the whole month of December off from the wedding. We have too much going on this month without planning.

 

After New Years, I will be back on it. At that point, I will be less than 3 months out so I will have to be on it!

[Chiquita]

I felt like that a month before my wedding.. all of the sudden I didn't really care anymore about stuff and didn't even log on here as much. I think it's pretty common to feel that way

[bumbles]

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Originally Posted by Sloan Everyone is busy planning their weddings and Im just happy to sit around and watch everyone else on this forum plan.

Haha I do the same thing! It's fun to look at pictures of everyone's fabulous weddings and planning ideas, but that's all I have been doing for the last couple of months. I imagine my wedding w/ vibrant colors and romantic rustic Mexican decor, but I haven't done anything. I figure there will be lots of time to kill in the bitterly cold months of Jan and Feb!

[Ana]

lol I'm totally feeling the same!!! I wish I was just married already. Ugh I don't have time to plan the little details, and frankly I don't even care anymore. I kind of wish we'd just eloped (a la Heidi and Spencer )

[Geralyn]

Our engagement party/ at home celebration was nov. 29 and after all the planning from that i need a little brake...but i know i really have to get started on wedding stuff but i just have no motivation!

[~Debra~]

I feel this exact same way! I haven't done anything wedding related for the past month and I'm dreading starting back up the process in January...we are also taking a break until January. I find myself thinking why don't I just hire a wedding planner and I can just tell her what I want done. Gosh. I don't even want to register in 2 weeks. How sad.