Out of curiousity . . .
Posted 03 April 2007 - 03:00 AM
Call my parents crazy but I was raised not to ask to be invited anywhere. If someone wants you somewhere they ask you, am I right? I have no obligation to invite everyone that smiles at me. I just had to let this out because some of these @$#&%$@ are unbelievable. As I tell these people my small wedding is for friends and family I literally cannot contain my laughter because it is so ridiculous to me. That's some rude shit!!!
Posted 03 April 2007 - 06:25 AM
But, I totally agree with you!! They're all crazy, SOOOO rude, and so ridiculous! Especially since you're having a destination wedding in Mexico, it's ridiculous!
Posted 03 April 2007 - 08:16 AM
Just blows me away---- fortunately, I don't have to worry about that from my co-workers... There are only 2 that I even converse with on a non-work basis and the rest are a bunch of redneck, juvenile, racist pigs that I stay the hell away from....
But I do expect this from FI's family. Especially on his dad's side. He has one aunt who is going to be really pissed when she hears she isn't invited to the wedding. She doesn't quite 'get it' that when she called everyone under the sun just a few days after his father's funeral and told them that he and his siblings were responsible for his father's death, that her actions pretty much clinched the fact she isn't invited to our wedding.
Posted 03 April 2007 - 08:57 AM
Posted 03 April 2007 - 09:32 AM
Who cares if this girl is upset she wasn't invited, I didn't invite anyone that I work with. One because I work with mostly men who all still act like they are in high school but two because we want our wedding "small". Maybe this girl just feels left out.
Posted 03 April 2007 - 09:56 AM
This hasn't happened to me, but a lot of times if my wedding comes up and I fear it might - I always start off by saying "it's going to be really small, just family and a few friends." But it happened to my friend last night, though not the same situation, and not even as bad. She had someone, a cousin or something, ask "can my 3 children come to the wedding too" even though the invite was specifically for Mr & Mrs only. There was no "and Family" on the invite! I asked Marti (my friend), isn't that a little rude that they even asked? Some people just don't get it I guess!
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Posted 03 April 2007 - 10:25 AM
I can't believe that girl told you it hurt her feelings. Is she 6 years old?
Posted 03 April 2007 - 10:27 AM
I do find it strange people have the balls to ask that kind of thing. Very interesting.
Posted 03 April 2007 - 10:29 AM
Sounds like your coworker has some issues within herself that she is laying on you...it's not your job to make her feel included, and weddings are definitely not the situation where anyone has a right to feel "left out." You weren't invited for a reason....that doesn't mean you aren't liked, but for most of us DW brides it just means you are not one of the 20 people I love most on the world.
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