His parents may not come!
Posted 24 November 2008 - 06:54 PM
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~ Jaime & Martin ~
"Rain or Swine! 2-0-0-9"
We had 24 people attend our wedding in Las Caletas, Mexico on May 24th, 2009!
We all stayed at The Marriott in P.V., and Honeymooned at The Royal Plantation in Ochos Rios, Jamaica!
Posted 24 November 2008 - 07:45 PM
Of course, I have a different perspective on the situation because it's similar to mine. My Mr.'s parents don't speak English (they're Vietnamese) and his father is quite old and in poor health. He's informed me his dad may or may not come, but they have an understanding in their family and he doesn't mind and neither does his dad. I feel guilty over it, but we're doing everything we can to accommodate him and make it easier. Perhaps we're bad children/in-laws? But I've come to realize that the Mr is genuine, and I can't judge his family dynamics - I wouldn't want his dad to come and be miserable the entire time... OK... you can throw stones at me now - the guilt is washing over three-fold!
Posted 24 November 2008 - 07:52 PM
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its your wedding so I say do it your way!
Posted 24 November 2008 - 09:31 PM
Posted 24 November 2008 - 09:42 PM
| Originally Posted by nicmicj |
I think they told him they may not come in hopes that we would change our minds about having the wedding in Las Vegas
you could always tell them it's already booked and your family and friends are already booked too, so it can't be changed because you'd lose deposit $$$, etc., but it's really important to you that they are there. some people think that we chose to have a destination wedding because we DIDN'T want them there, or didn't care. maybe they just need some ego-stroking?
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