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#11 Kat81

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    Posted 06 November 2008 - 12:11 PM

    She is obviously insecure in her relationship and it bugs the hell out of her that he had a life before her. She is just an idiot. Don't let it get to you. She can't be TOO happy if she is bugging you in her free time. She is probably miserable and wanting to not feel alone. You found your man.. just ignore that stupid *&#*$# and put it in the past with Mr asshole!!

    #12 azhuskergirl

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      Posted 06 November 2008 - 08:46 PM

      this girl sounds so immature. They'll make a great couple.

      Sorry this dragged up so many hard feelings for you.

      #13 samanthag

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        Posted 06 November 2008 - 09:05 PM

        I'm sorry that you had to go through this. But it's definitely a reminder of why you are not with this crazy man & the crazy people he surrounds himself with!
        She is obviously super insecure with herself and her relationship with this loser!!!! Good for them!!!!
        You are living a better life. A life with purpose. And a life with the man of your dreams!

        #14 RedDiamond

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          Posted 06 November 2008 - 09:36 PM

          I think if it were me I would have just said "I'm getting married to a new man who treats me good, much better than Mr. A ever could. Best of luck with Mr. A."

          She's really young. The novelty of a younger woman wears off for any man, especially when the girl starts getting old. If he's with her because she's young he will get into a habit of finding a new younger girlfriend every few years. She'll figure that out.

          #15 cougs


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            Posted 06 November 2008 - 10:31 PM

            you definitely did the right thing ... we have no time in our lives for jealous, immature people! marry the man you love (and who loves you) and put the past behind you where it belongs!

            i have received 3 emails over the past year from random people on myspace (of course with no picture and unrevealing screen names) saying in various ways that i "should not get married" because my fiance "is cheating on me." i'm 99.9% sure it's one of our ex-assholes trying to start shit. besides that, i'm 100% sure it's not true. the first time, i replied "nice. real mature." the next two times, i didn't even give them the pleasure of a response.

            i'm too old for the teenager nonsense. and i love and trust tom completely. no idiot making up fake myspace accounts is going to change that.

            #16 jesjess

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              Posted 07 November 2008 - 04:35 AM

              Thank you so much girls, you really helped me alot with al your good advices. It feels great to know that you are all suporting me. And you are all so nice to me, i'm glad I found Bdw and you ladies. Especially in these times of stress and planning our weddings, I think its awsome, we can talk to eathother about every thing we plan for our weddings, but also we can talk about the things thats bothering us at the moment.

              You are the best!

              #17 Ayita

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                Posted 07 November 2008 - 05:18 AM

                I happen to have been harassed by the new girl in the life of an ex... she was calling me on the phone, every day, every night, at work, at home, on my cell... she was ringing and ringing and ringing and as soon as I would pick up she'd hang up. Appears she had taken my contact details from his cell (but she did not bother to hide her number and this is how I found her). My ex was the brother of Mr Asshole... we broke up the day he explained to me I should be a brunette with bigger boobs... anyway... long story short, I changed all my numbers to get peace... and then looking back at it, it's kind of funny. Really. The only reaction to the mails you received : laugh at it, reply by a "Mazeltov, I'm soooo glad he left me and you will be soooo happy together. Thank you for your interest"

                Nothing makes people feel more shi*tty (and fuming) than when you don't enter in their game. It actually appears that these two are made for each other

                Don't worry : it has nothing to do with you !! It's all about her... and him. It looks like he's not yet over you, isn't he ? Well you're over him so breathe and laugh. Look at how blissfully happy you are and don't even think about how miserable he must be that the only to get back to you is through a disturbed, insecure kid that he manipulates...

                #18 starchild



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                  Posted 07 November 2008 - 08:46 AM

                  Okay that girl is crazy! I hope they both stay away, you deserve to be happy with your future husband.

                  #19 reg

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                    Posted 07 November 2008 - 09:04 AM

                    My goodness, what a story! Good that you could vent it out though and now it is time to look forward to marrying the most wonderful guy you have ever met! :-)

                    #20 jesjess

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                      Posted 07 November 2008 - 09:48 AM


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