Who the HELL does she think she is!!! LONG

[Kat81]

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Originally Posted by Ayita I happen to have been harassed by the new girl in the life of an ex... she was calling me on the phone, every day, every night, at work, at home, on my cell... she was ringing and ringing and ringing and as soon as I would pick up she'd hang up. Appears she had taken my contact details from his cell (but she did not bother to hide her number and this is how I found her). My ex was the brother of Mr Asshole... we broke up the day he explained to me I should be a brunette with bigger boobs... anyway... long story short, I changed all my numbers to get peace... and then looking back at it, it's kind of funny. Really. The only reaction to the mails you received : laugh at it, reply by a "Mazeltov, I'm soooo glad he left me and you will be soooo happy together. Thank you for your interest" Nothing makes people feel more shi*tty (and fuming) than when you don't enter in their game. It actually appears that these two are made for each other Don't worry : it has nothing to do with you !! It's all about her... and him. It looks like he's not yet over you, isn't he ? Well you're over him so breathe and laugh. Look at how blissfully happy you are and don't even think about how miserable he must be that the only to get back to you is through a disturbed, insecure kid that he manipulates...

OMG I think I dated the same guy!! I once mentioned dying my hair brown. (which is funny because I am actually doing it on monday) once he got that in his head he kept telling me I needed to do it and that I needed a boob job and that I had a horrible singing voice, I didn't dress right, I was a horrible cook... hmmm I could go on and on... Honestly though I am the best thing that ever happened to him and he realized it when I left. He hasn't found ONE chick that will put up with his shit since I left. It was only a nine month relationship and we only saw eachother on the weekends. That is the only reason it lasted as long as it did. What a loser our ex's are!!

[Mrs D To Be!]

how random is that for her to go to that bother to contact you!! its probably him desguising himself as a little teenage hottie to see if he can make you jealous!!!

 

you did the best thing by blocking them...the past is the past for a reason!!

[heather007]

Wow, obviously Mr. Asshole is being an asshole to her and she sought you out to see what happened between your relationship with him.

 

I can't believe that she would do that, I find that so incredibly immature.

 

Good on you for taking the higher road and blocking her.

 

Question: do you think that maybe she was actually Mr. Asshole pretending to be his girlfriend? Maybe he caught wind of you remarrying and he wanted to stir the pot a little bit?

 

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[jesjess]

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Originally Posted by heather007 Wow, obviously Mr. Asshole is being an asshole to her and she sought you out to see what happened between your relationship with him. I can't believe that she would do that, I find that so incredibly immature. Good on you for taking the higher road and blocking her. Question: do you think that maybe she was actually Mr. Asshole pretending to be his girlfriend? Maybe he caught wind of you remarrying and he wanted to stir the pot a little bit? ~~

You know, I have thought about that actually, but Ive been on here site, en she does really exists, but even then it is possible he maybe would do something stupid like emailing me, trough here. But I just don't understand why he would do that,,we havent seen or talked in 8 years, there is no benefit for for him in interfering with my life...O well, I dont care anymore..
it is in the past now, just like the both of them..

[Emily&Matt]

Yeah, it's best not to respond to an email like that. They get the most pleasure out of getting you upset.

 

It's only a matter of time....days, months, maybe years, but it WILL happen...he will treat her just like he treated you and she WILL understand it all then.

[IslamoradaBride]

How bizarre and awful-- you were right to block them both. I can't even imagine contacting someone's long-ago ex to cuss them out. It's so low-class and tawdry.