e-ring advice needed!! im really confused...
Posted 05 November 2008 - 09:37 AM
I say talk to him about it, and if you decide to have one ring, then there is nothing wrong with that either. A lot of people are only having one ring and whether you use an ering as your wedding ring as well, or you just get the wedding ring, all that matters is the love that the 2 of you share.
Posted 05 November 2008 - 03:01 PM
First of all, your engagement is not strange at all. You don't need a ring to profess your love and commitment at the moment you propose!
Second, be honest with him and work it out together. My e-ring is something that I would have never-ever chosen myself; but it is FI's grandmother's ring and it means so much to me that his family wants me to have it! That being said, he knows what I like and when we have the $ for an anniversary; we are going to get me a right-hand ring of what I really wanted (which was a ruby ring).
Third, if $ is an issue.. I agree with what a few ppl have said - get an amazing wedding band that you love. He can always get you an 'engagement ring' later in your lives togehter when you can afford your dream ring.
Posted 05 November 2008 - 03:37 PM
Oh and I def agree with the poster that said to try them on. I knew what I wanted and got exactly that, but so many people's ideas change once they start looking around.
Posted 05 November 2008 - 03:41 PM
we have talked about it a bit now and he knows what i want for an e-ring and its something we cant afford right now so I suggested that we wait and I will get an eternity wedding band and like many of you suggested for an anniversary in the future he will probably get me an "e-ring"....thank you so much i feel better that he now knows what i feel
Posted 05 November 2008 - 07:54 PM
I know that it seems strange to order something like an e-ring without actually seeing it, but it's not that bad. Well... not bad at all if you use a good vendor (with a good return/upgrade policy) who sells AGS and/or GIA certified stones.
Posted 05 November 2008 - 11:25 PM
Michelle, do you have a picture of the ring that you like best? Can you share? Inquiring minds need PICS!!!
Posted 07 November 2008 - 12:08 PM
Here's my ring and well Steve's too. I love it and we easily paid it off! You can have the best of both worlds.
Posted 07 November 2008 - 12:10 PM
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