Future MIL Problems
Posted 28 October 2008 - 07:26 PM
On one hand I know if we go along with this and she doesnt attend he will be crushed and I wont have 100% of him on our wedding day.
On the other hand if we switch it to jamaica I know i wouldnt be happy because this is not what we wanted and we are catering to her needs. Am I being selfish? Should I just say lets do it in jamaica so he can have his mom there? Should I just say it and stick to the plan? HELP!
Posted 28 October 2008 - 08:02 PM
Posted 28 October 2008 - 08:10 PM
Try not to get in between the two of them. He should be able to handle her.. after all, he's had to do it his entire life and I'm sure this isn't coming as a big surprise.
Posted 28 October 2008 - 08:12 PM
I agree with RedDiamond...she is the one being selfish this should be about what you and him want!
Posted 28 October 2008 - 08:18 PM
At the end of the day, it is about the two of you and the love you share. This is one day you are both allowed and expected to be selfish, so make your vision of the perfect wedding become your reality. Bottom line, do what makes you happy ~
Posted 28 October 2008 - 08:19 PM
Posted 28 October 2008 - 08:42 PM
Posted 29 October 2008 - 10:32 AM
She never behaved like this before we have gotten along for the whole 8 years I've been with her son...She has never gotten in our business ( which is rare for a MIL) lol I think she is nervous about losing her son...but shit she lives downstairs lol lol lol
Posted 29 October 2008 - 10:37 AM
I'm so glad that you & FI talked this over & you are both on the same page!!
Posted 29 October 2008 - 10:41 AM
Wow what a guilt trip she's trying to pull. How dare you plan a wedding the way you guys want it and not take her needs into consideration! Give me a break, i hope she grows up shes really immature. I hope she wakes up and realizes that this is what her son and his future wife wants so she should be there for you guys
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