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#1 latinalocany

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    Posted 17 October 2008 - 03:28 PM

    Such a hard descision!! i've been a punk trying to avoid! my sister and I are sooo close, she is like my best friend too and my best friend she is like my sister!!!! who do I pick??

    #2 becks

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    Posted 17 October 2008 - 03:33 PM

    Any chance one is married and the other not? Then you can have a maid and a matron of honor. Problem solved!

    On the other hand, if it's just the two of them standing with you, then why designate either? Just call them both bridesmaids and that would be good enough.

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    #3 kate.com

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      Posted 17 October 2008 - 03:43 PM

      You can have to maid of honors too... or none which makes everyone equal. Otherwise, sisters always trump friends. Period.

      #4 Bianca

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        Posted 17 October 2008 - 03:46 PM

        My sister chose her friend over me for her MOH... but that was bc I was only 18, so I couldn't really handle the duties involved (like the bridal shower, bachlorette, etc...)
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        #5 DanielleNDerek

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          Posted 17 October 2008 - 03:50 PM

          I think if you want 2 than do it. Screw the rulz. If you have to choose i would go with your sister especially if you are really close with her. Blood over water kinda thing
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          #6 latinalocany

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            Posted 17 October 2008 - 04:23 PM

            they are both married. this is driving me crazy so i just might take your advice and have 2!!!

            #7 ~*Kathy*~

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              Posted 17 October 2008 - 04:26 PM

              I would just make the both MOHs or have none at all. I like to avoid confrontation though haha. Good luck!

              #8 RosieM

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                Posted 17 October 2008 - 04:30 PM

                Quote:
                Originally Posted by becks
                On the other hand, if it's just the two of them standing with you, then why designate either? Just call them both bridesmaids and that would be good enough.
                I second that. Then no hurt feelings.

                #9 samanthag

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                  Posted 17 October 2008 - 04:36 PM

                  I think you should have 2!
                  Then again, I think if I had a sister I'd pick my sister?!
                  I know I'm no help at all!
                  I'm having a hard time deciding about my brother. We are super close and I just think "groomsmen" isn't enough??

                  #10 **~Jenn~**

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                    Posted 17 October 2008 - 04:52 PM

                    The Best part about having a Destination Wedding is, You don't have to follow the "traditional" rules!! Make them both your MOH...I think it'll be what makes you the happiest!! :-)
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