|there is a thin difference between the two if you are the one being wronged, but a huge-o-mungous difference when it is you doing the wronging|
But what about the "Golden Rule" (treat others as you wish to be treated). Not everyone wants to be treated the same!! Good example - the 5 Languages of Love that was a thread this week.
A bridal question - you're trying on dresses with a friend. You LOVE the dress you have on and gush about it. Your friend thinks it doesnt, um, flatter your figure. Would you rather her tell the truth or just pretend she likes it since you obviously LOVE it?
Me - I would want her to be honest (and if I was the friend, I would be honest). But I know some people who would think her honesty would be rude!