Why is the thought of changing my last name freaking me out?
Posted 02 November 2008 - 03:44 PM
It's weird growing up I could't wait to get married so I could change my last name (O'Connor) now I like it and it's who I am. I don't like my FH last name (Lester) and it sounds like a tounge twister with my daughters name (Kaylee). She's 12 and said that she would like to change her name.
I probablly will change our names because it is the right thing to do. I keep joking with my FH that we both shopuld change our last name to somthing really cool. He just laughs and thinks that I am joking. Really I'm not
Posted 02 November 2008 - 04:53 PM
Posted 02 November 2008 - 09:30 PM
I have to admit, this forum has brought up this issue again in my mind. After reading it, I'm like maybe I'll keep my last name and just add his legally but at work use my maiden name and he really doesn't even have to know. I can't do that though, it's just not right.
Besides, we have three kids together and I'm tired of not having the same last name as them.
Posted 02 November 2008 - 09:31 PM
Posted 02 November 2008 - 09:48 PM
He won't change his, i won't take his... so this is our solution. We have had 7 years together to plan this out so I am fine with the solution.
Posted 11 November 2008 - 04:20 AM
I'm 31, we've been together 7 years, I dont like his last name, and for the past few years I feel like my maiden name is part of my identity. I do not have a middle name so I guess I will probably end up taking my maiden name as my middle name. I think I will feel better if I can keep it somehow. I guess I'll see how I feel about it next October.
Posted 11 November 2008 - 04:58 PM
My FI knows that I will take his name, but I will keep my maiden name as a middle name.
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Posted 19 November 2008 - 03:11 AM
Posted 19 November 2008 - 05:08 AM
I definitely want to keep my last name. Wow! Now I have to add one more thing to my list of cons. LOL Just kidding.
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