The Engagement Ring
Posted 10 October 2008 - 07:17 PM
Posted 10 October 2008 - 08:04 PM
If he is a sensitive guy, who agonized over choosing one for you...then just personally, for me, I couldn't do it. I'd be happy with it, because he gave it to me and all that Hallmark card stuff.
On other OTHER hand...if you have a man who has told you in any way, shape or form that he wasn't sure WHAT to get you, and expressed any type of worry about it, then I'd say you were safe to at least approach the subject of swapping it for something else.
I know it's got to be hard...I would hate not being happy with something I am wearing for the rest of my life. That's one reason I shamelessly pointed him in the right direction in terms of style months before he did anything about it. lol
Good luck, and keep us posted. I'd like to hear how this turns out for you.
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Posted 10 October 2008 - 08:36 PM
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Posted 11 October 2008 - 12:12 AM
It came down to wedding bands for us. I LOVE my original e ring, but I could not find a wedding band to go with it. And ultimately I decided that I really wanted to wear a e ring and wedding band together. FI was with me for the 1,000s of rings I tried on, and he was on board when I threw around the possibility of switching.
However, had I said I wanted to switch the diamond, he would have been hurt/upset. He picked the diamond all by himself and took his sweet time doing so! I would never trade the diamond because it means a lot to both of us. Where as the band holding it didn't have as much symbolism to us.
Posted 11 October 2008 - 08:28 AM
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