Strippers at Bachelor Party?
Posted 29 August 2009 - 08:52 PM
I think you should discuss what lines you are comfortable and not comfortable with your fiance crossing. Having been there and seen what goes on, I would NOT be comfortable with my fiance sitting right up front with a view of everything, and yes, i mean everything, less than 2 inches away from his nose... However, I would have no problem with him sitting around a table with his buddies drinking some beer and watching the "show".
The best thing you can do is be open with your fiance. If you really don't trust him, then you need to re-evaluate the situation and figure out why you dont trust him. You might be surprised by his response. Most guys I know don't really find strip clubs that appealing but they go b/c its the "guy thing to do". Also, I think your fiance may be upset if you pretend it doesnt bother you and he thinks you don't care what hes up to...
Just my opinions... take them for what you will.
Posted 29 August 2009 - 09:45 PM
Posted 31 August 2009 - 02:46 PM
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Posted 02 March 2010 - 02:47 AM
Posted 02 March 2010 - 09:15 AM
I know my husband and I both didn't even consider anything like that... I thought people had moved away from tha kind of venue for staggs
Posted 02 March 2010 - 09:49 AM
Posted 02 March 2010 - 11:45 AM
Posted 02 March 2010 - 12:29 PM
Posted 02 March 2010 - 02:01 PM
| Originally Posted by sjmacphe |
Ugh, I have to revive this thread. My FI's friends are back to bringing up the bachelor party in Vegas idea. I think it's not such a great idea, my FI doesn't even want to go (well he's torn, I think he does but could go without it). One of his friends is pushing him to do it and has essentially already planned it and told him he has to go...Ok, that's fine, but I saw the itinerary and his friend has Strip clubs planned as nightly entertainment like 3/4 nights....SERIOUSLY?? Ugh, I know it's cause this guy is a virgin and that's the closest to action he gets (he's religious seems like an oxymoron I know...), but i am not really comfortable with them going that much...I guess I shouldn't really care if they go once of 3 times in a weekend, I haven't talked to my FI about it yet b/c I "accidentally" looked at the email...I don't know what to do, I wish they just wouldn't go...why does this make me feel so uncomfortable? I think it would be different if all of his friends weren't so ridiculous/immature...this sucks!!
my FI and i have a great relationship, i'm NOT controlling or bitchy or crazy, but I do require RESPECT and his bachelor party shouldn't be an exception to this rule. he is going out with his friends and having a good time and i am going out with my girls...but there will be NO strippers in either case b/c we both feel strongly about this!!
if you as a couple are BOTH ok with strippers, thats fine. but it's not fair for you to be worrying or accept a situation that you are not comfortable with so tell your FI how you feel!!
Posted 02 March 2010 - 06:20 PM
I'm glad I told him how I feel, I think he's probably still going to go but he's going to have to make it up to me - I am going to Vegas one day (probably in a year or 2) with my friends too and there's nothing he can say about it.
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