Strippers at Bachelor Party?
Posted 16 June 2009 - 01:50 PM
Also, having seen the other side of it, he knows that all these girls want is the dudes money, so it really helps to put all this in perspective. And I know he likes to watch porn, but this does not change anything (I also don't mind porn, honestly, better this than cheating).
Anyway, i also remember a bachelorette party at a club on a Sunday afternoon. The other girls had booked a stripper. The guy came and made the "cop search" number. It was pretty funny. The guy was nice to look at. And then what ? nothing, the party went on. I think we maybe fantasize too much about what a "stripper" is and means. Maybe we've watched too many movies, haha.
Posted 16 June 2009 - 04:25 PM
Posted 28 August 2009 - 04:00 PM
im in the same boat, My guy is going to vegas with all his friends and im worried. =( I mean do any of you guys worry about the so called "innocent fun" they may have with strippers or even the females they meet at the bars/clubs? I mean is it okay for your fiancee to touch a stripper, grab her butt or boobs? I mean i feel like we really don't know what goes on and whatever does happen, its not like we would find out (i dont think), the boys keep to themselves. What is accepatable to you guys? do you plan to tell you guy what you don't want him to do. Is it okay for him to dance/grind on another women? I am sure after the strippers they will be heading to a club in vegas and be surrounded by women. I just don't understand why it seems like guys think its okay to do all this stuff with women on the bachelor party and its okay because its their bachelor party. Thats the other thing that worries me is how much "innocent fun" is he going ot have with these random girls? I mean i know people say is his last whooorah..but does that it means its okay for him to be all up on many women? =(
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Posted 28 August 2009 - 05:10 PM
Here's a tip....before he leaves on his Bachelor party give him the craziest sex, lap dance, strip tease you can think of (seriously have some fun with it). Trust me this will only make him want to race home to you
I totally understand the uncomfortable feelings that happen. You wouldn't be human if they didn't happen but I like what someone posted earlier here (sorry I can't remember who):
Act like you don't care, tell him to have a good time, and remind him that on your bachelorette you're going to have just as much fun!!! There may be a lap dance with some guys man parts in your face, LOL, even if that's a bit of lie (personally I think YUCK) - anyhow watch how uncomfortable it makes him. Your guy will understand right then and there why you feel the way you do! Oh and if he acts like he's cool with it just know that he's full of it because no guy is really cool with that, trust me on this one.
At the end of the day your man loves you and you love him and you shouldn't worry yourself with things like this.
Posted 28 August 2009 - 05:22 PM
Posted 28 August 2009 - 06:15 PM
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Posted 28 August 2009 - 07:46 PM
I just want him to enjoy something that's all about him before the wedding because most of it is all about me lol.
But, I might be crazy.
Posted 28 August 2009 - 11:37 PM
But alot of my friends aren't as calm as I am about it, and I have had friends that ripped their husbands out of strip clubs by their ears. So I really think it's such a personal thing, the way we react to it. It depends on US, and THEM and how we interact together as a couple. So if you aren't comfortable with it, let him know. It's as simple as that.
Posted 29 August 2009 - 12:00 AM
But if it bothers you then you tell him, dont be afraid..hell you're about to get married you should be able to say anything you want and what makes u both comfortable & uncomfortable and he should respect that.
Posted 29 August 2009 - 03:46 PM
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