| Originally Posted by mummergirl |
great topic! it's been a running joke that once we say "i do" my in-laws are going to lock us in our room and not let us out until i'm knocked up, LOL. they are seriously grandbaby-hungry and i think a bit nervous because i'm already 36 (will be almost 37 by the time of the wedding). it was supposed to be the baby-making trip for my MOH and her husband too, so we could be prego together (now she's not coming at all, and that's a different story for a different thread).
honestly tho, i know the ol' clock is ticking and all, but we will need to be looking for a house (no way we could raise a baby in that tiny apartment of ours) and my fiance will still have over a year of (full-time) school left, meaning we'll only have my salary to work with for awhile (and that's not much). so the timing isn't quite right for us yet, ya know?
hey just noticed that you are 37, so you're probably going thru the same pressures i am LOL. do you have any children or would this be your first?
if the timing is right for you and you both want it, i say go for it!
I would like to enjoy our first year Married, plus we want to work on buying a house. However..After the wedding, we'll stop trying to "not" get pregnant and let whatever is meant to be, Be :-)