My youngest sister has passed...I want to cancel ceremony
Posted 03 October 2008 - 08:21 PM
Posted 04 October 2008 - 02:35 AM
Posted 04 October 2008 - 02:47 AM
I know that finding the strength to continue planning your wedding must be so difficult, but take time to grieve and step back from the planning process. No one can blame you for not being in a celebratory mood, but I think that your sister would have wanted you to move forward and celebrate your wedding. Something joyous for your family to look forward to can be a great source of healing for all of you. But try take it one day at a time, and like all the others have said, ultimately the decision is in your hands.
My heart goes out to you ~ stay strong
Posted 04 October 2008 - 04:02 AM
No one can tell you what you should or should not do about your wedding. What's important is that you make the decision that gives you the most comfort, or any at all, at this time. There are few times in life that it is okay to be greedy and this is one of those times. It's said that losing a sibling hurts as terribly as losing a child. I cannot imagine your pain and that of your family.
Remember all the wonderful things your sister did and how wonderful she was while she was with you. My own sister passed in infancy. I never had the chance to grow with her, but I can tell you that I love her endlessly.
Again, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take one step at a time and you'll know when you are ready for a wedding.
Posted 04 October 2008 - 06:04 AM
| Originally Posted by Indigo |
We really don't know how she died which is causing more pain. We got a call from the hospital stating that she had passed. We did not get a chance to say goodbye at all. An autopsy was done and the pathologist said she had pulmonary fibrosis. He doesn't know how and why she had it and it is going to take a month or so to get specific information. My heart is really heavy right now and I all the joy and excitement that comes with planning and organizing my wedding has gone.
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