My youngest sister has passed...I want to cancel ceremony
Posted 03 October 2008 - 03:31 PM
I agree with SunBride - you probably need to take some time to grieve and deal with your loss, however long that takes. Sometimes, we think we are dealing with a loss extremely well, when in fact, we're not. I know when my Dad passed away; I wasn't able to attend any "happy" events for about 6 months. You will be affected in many different ways - not only emotionally, but physically and mentally, as this type of loss saps quite a bit of your energy.
Posted 03 October 2008 - 03:37 PM
Take some time before you make any decisions. Reflect back on her life.
Posted 03 October 2008 - 03:41 PM
Again, I am deeply sorry for your loss
Posted 03 October 2008 - 03:42 PM
Posted 03 October 2008 - 04:06 PM
My father is really ill and i've already said no matter what happens I will not cancel my wedding, FI's sister is also really ill and he has said the same. However that is us and everyone is different.
My friend's son was killed in Afghanistan and 2 weeks later his uncle got married she said it was a really hard day but a wonderful one 2 because it helped show her that life really did go on and that even if he wasn't there physically she knew he was there in spirit. I think they even kind of included him in the ceremony.
You'll make the decision thats right for you and FI when you need to xx
Posted 03 October 2008 - 04:14 PM
Posted 03 October 2008 - 04:19 PM
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