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My youngest sister has passed...I want to cancel ceremony

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I am so sorry for your loss I can't even imagine your pain. I am sure celebrating right now is the last thing you want to do but would your sister want you to cancel? Do what is right for you, don't worry about the guest, the $$$ or anything else not even your FI worry about you. You are allowed to be selfish, to only think of what is best for you, and your feelings. You and your family are in my prayers and remember we are all here for you and to listen

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I am sooooo sorry to hear this sad.gif

 

just take it one day at a time and you will know what is right when the time comes to make decisions

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I am so sorry to hear baout your loss. I couldn't imagine losing my sister, so it breaks my heart thinking of you losing yours. Like it has been said already, take a couple weeks to grieve before making any wedding decisions. Whatever you and your FI decide to do, don't worry about everyone elses or the $. If you feel that she would want you to continue with the wedding and you will be able to do so, maybe include her in the ceremony. If you don't think you will be able to go through with it right now, there is nothing wrong with postponing it.

 

Don't forget that BDW is here for you if you need anything!

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Originally Posted by roo66 View Post
Oh my god, im feeling your pain having lost my younger and only sister when she was 13.Can i ask what happened?Forget the wedding at the moment and just wait and see how you feel in a month or so.We always say the person would want us to carry on .Only you know what your sister would of wanted for you both dont put any pressure on yourselves to make decisions. Im sure your just waking up each morning and wondering how you are going to get through this.Let me tell you you will.Life wont ever be the same again thats for sure.I have one other piece of advice remember her and smilexxxxxx im so sorry you are having to go through this.huge hugs n squezzes maria xxx.Give your parents a big hug from me too.xxxx im sorry
We really don't know how she died which is causing more pain. We got a call from the hospital stating that she had passed. We did not get a chance to say goodbye at all. An autopsy was done and the pathologist said she had pulmonary fibrosis. He doesn't know how and why she had it and it is going to take a month or so to get specific information. My heart is really heavy right now and I all the joy and excitement that comes with planning and organizing my wedding has gone.

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I am so terribly sorry that you are having to go through this. My parents were taken in a car accident 3 years ago this month, so I somewhat know how you are feeling. Take as long as you need to grieve. There is no right or wrong way or timeline as to what you should feel and do. You have received a range of advice about what to do for the wedding. Whatever you decide to do will be right for you and your family.

Hugs!!!!!!!!!

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