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My youngest sister has passed...I want to cancel ceremony

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Oh honey I am soooo sorry about your little sister, words can not express. Take one day at a time right now and know that your family will get through this... including your "family" right here!

 

Thoughts and prayers go out to your family in this time of need. Take this time to reflect and celebrate for everything she is and was.

 

Wait a bit on canceling, she is with you right now.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. But why don't you wait and give it some time before you cancel. Your sister would probably want you to be happy and still have your wonderful day. You could always have a moment for her as well as a chair for her with a flower on it in her memory. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all of the best in this sad time...my thoughs and prayers are with you and your family.

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I am so so sorry to hear about your loss I can not begin to imagine what you and your family must be going through. You and your FI should give it time and see how you feel. Your family is in our thoughts.

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grouphug.gif I know how hard this must be on you, I lost my father 2 years ago.

 

The best piece of advice I can give you is to stop and grieve, don't worry about anything else like the wedding. The first few weeks are probably the worst and even just waking up in the morning feels like to much sometimes. I know for me that even the little mundane things made me either want to cry or scream during that time.

 

After the funeral is over and you have been back to your daily routines for a couple weeks, that is the best time to start thinking about the wedding again. It will seem less overwhelming and you will be able to see things from perspectives other than the grieving process.

 

Please let us know if there is anything you need or anything we can do to support you. We are here to listen even if its just to talk. wink.gif

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I am sorry!!! I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. We are here for you if you need anything and will be in my thoughts and prayers!angel2.gif

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